Fandom Problem #14,106:
A male character being sophisticated and elegant doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
A male being shy and soft spoken doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
A male character being attenuative and parental doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
A male character who cooks, cleans, and tidies the home doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
A male character having long hair and wearing flowing robes/clothes doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
A male character being calm and tranquil doesn't mean he's feminine or trans.
I could go on and on. Reverse can easily be said about female characters.
People like to talk about breaking gender norms, but the moment they encounter a character that doesn't abide said gender norms, those same people immediately claim that they're obviously trans.