#fandom therapist

[shitthehousessay]

Hey hi. So I've been in a weird state if mind right now because I'm kinda confused. I'm a girl attracted to male and female and even though I could imagine myself having a relationship with another girl I just can't picture me with a wife in the future. Like relationships would be no problem but to settle down when I'm older, I'd rather have a boyfriend. Can I still call myself bisexual?

Yes you can. Some people just have preferences. I lean more towards boys than girls but I still call myself bi because I still like both.

You could even have someone who's biromantic but heterosexual. That doesn't make them not biromantic.

Sexual and romantic identities are weird and fluid and complicated. That's why labels are so hard- because everyone is different and has different tastes and preferences.

Just be confident and comfortable with who you are and worry about the rest later. 💚

-Mel (the Slytherin)

[missantichrist]

This fandom gets really dramatic sometimes and I just wanted everyone following me (at least), to know that if you ever feel upset, down, left out, angry etc., I’m always here to talk to/rant to. I’m good at listening. I’m also pretty good at giving advice. I’m unproblematic and non-judgemental and I won’t share anything you share with me unless you want me to. I’m good at keeping secrets. So if ANYONE needs to ever just “let it out” I’m here to be your emotional dumpster. I love all of you guys and in this fandom (or any fandom, really) I believe everyone should be supporting eachother, not putting eachother down.

-R 💕

NOTE: If you see this, please reblog it. You never know who might need someone to talk to.

[shitthehousessay]

What house is Deadpool in?

I’ve been told by many people that Ryan Reynolds himself is a Hufflepuff so there is that. I personally think he could be a Huff. He does tend to do things just because he feels it’s right and because he’s a nice person, like when he kept a girl from jumping off a building in the comics. He just has his own way of doing those things that makes him seem less Hufflepuff.

-Mel (the Slytherin)

[shitthehousessay]

would a ravenclaw and a Slytherin do well together in your eyes?

Yes, I think so. I am rather biased considering my relationship but we’ve done really well so far. (I mean next month will be our two year anniversary.) The key, like with any relationship, is just communicating with each other.-Mel (the Slytherin)

[shitthehousessay]

My creepy bio teacher gave me and no one else a chocolate called golden vodka, for absolutely no reason, is he trying to kill me?

Umm that is a little weird??So you have no relationship with this teacher? He just pays extra attention to you? I mean that isn’t like automatically a bad thing, but that is a little strange and maybe not a good sign. If you feel uncomfortable maybe you should bring it up to another adult. That would be my best advice. -Mel (the Slytherin)

[shitthehousessay]

Help my best friend jokingly suggested that I am a lesbian (I am very much so but I’m closeted) and now my sister keeps making gay jokes and it’s frustrating because I’m not going to come out because i for sure will get bullied.

It is frustrating but I think it’s smart. If you’ll get bullied for coming out then it’s in the best interest of you and your safety not to come out till you’re in a safer situation.-Mel (the Slytherin )