Aftercare drabbles!! I’ve been posting about ddlg lately so i figured i would also share some if my aftercare bits with him because thats the most important part
He’d been really hesitant when you first brought it up. The idea, to him, felt extremely immoral and wrong, especially before you’d explained it. He didn’t feel completely comfortable with you calling him ‘daddy’ in general, let alone leaning into that dynamic
When you’d explained it to him more, though, he was more willing to try. If it would make you feel better, at least. The idea isn’t particularly arousing to him, but he likes playing the part just to see you happy, and he doesn’t mind it too much. In fact, he enjoys taking care of you
At first, he requested that you keep everything appropriate and out of the bedroom, which you were okay with. He wanted to get good at taking care of you before you got into the more intense parts of the dynamic. He’d hate to ever hurt you or not be able to comfort you properly
He particularly enjoys making meals and snacks for you. He took you to the store a week or so after you’d first brought the dynamic up, wanting you to have anything you’d need to make you feel more comfortable. He helped you pick out a few cute plates and water bottles, and he seemed to get more excited to baby you and take care of you as the shopping went on, even going so far as to pick out a stuffed animal for you in secret, only showing you the night that you got home
He really loves being your caretaker. The idea of protecting you, making you feel safe and loved, it’s always something he’s enjoyed. Cuddling you, reading to you, singing to you to help you sleep, all of it. Seeing you relaxed and safe in his arms is his favorite part if every day
When he eventually was comfortable enough to bring up the topic of sex, you assured him he didn’t need to do anything he was uncomfortable with, and he said the same for you. At first, things stayed pretty soft. He was terrified of taking things too far or hurting you, so when you were wanting to explore that dynamic, he was always very gentle with you
After a while, he became more comfortable to explore scenarios and ideas you’d had. A few of them had been quite harsh or rough, and though he didn’t like being in that position, or playing the part if someone who had hurt you, the relief on your face when it was all over was worth it to him
He was always sure to be extremely affectionate afterwards; drawing you a bath if you wanted, getting you snacks and water, wrapping you up in blankets and holding you for the rest of the night
His top priority was helping you feel safe and happy, and he’d stop at nothing to achieve that