Di ko akalaing ganto ang magiging response ng nakakarami. First let me explain, there was a video that trends advising a girl who already want to have a boyfriend to set aside her standard to a guy more if they both like each other already. He also told the girl to just put rules and limits while on they are on that stage.
“Isa pa to, bash me or not but I need to say this. This is one of the things that corrupts us guys. It takes away the sense of being a gentleman. Gusto mo sya? Paghirapan mo yung Oo. In courtship there you will see whose men and who are still boys. Boys, do want shortcuts but real men will always fight for you. You want a good woman but you keep destroying those good women. Have some balls. Gusto mo? Paghirapan mo, di to instant noodles na pag gutom ka in 3 min pwede na. Gumugusto ka na boy? Be a man. Truth ka mo? This video is not the truth. Be true to yourself, gusto mo? kaya mo ba responsibility? Walang shortcut sa relationship. Gusto mo malamang kung balasubas yung lalaki? Kilalanin mo through his friends, peers, hobbies and lifestyle. If di ka sigurado sa lalaki, wag mo isugal, I-sure mo muna. Ano yun when you like her and she likes you gusto mo kayo na, kasi naaatat ka na kasi may gusto kang ma experience? Di yun yon. Pinaghahandaan yun, pinaghihirapan yun. Kaya maraming takot na babae, kasi na trauma sa mga lalaking balasubas. Mga ate wag kang susugal, manigurado ka. Gusto mo? Makakabuti ba sayo? Mas gusto mo naman siguro dun sa sure ka na kesa sa susugal ka na pwedeng talo pala. Lalaki ako kaya nasasabi ko to. Sa ligawan? Kung magpapanggap ka lang tropa sa panliligaw mo, pakitang tao ka lang. Kaw ang talo. Sasayangin mo ang taong pwede sanang makakasama mo habang buhay. Kung hindi mo kayang magpakatotoo sa panliligaw wag ka nang manligaw. Girls, please don't just give your yes so easily. In this world full of now na, be the girl to stand on your ground about your standard. Cause even your standard is high as the sky, the right guy will always make a way to be that man of your dreams. Men please put some decency and let be the standard that these women hope for.”
We all have opinion and we should respect that. But I just want to remind to both men and women that relationship is not something to experiment. It’s something to experience to that someone you’re going to spend time with.
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