If you've ever hung around human beings, you may have noticed something fascinating: Nothing is ever anyone's fault│Fault is always placed on someone else. There's an incredible cycle of blaming others for failures and people will only admit fault when they're browbeaten by others to do so. Ever wonder why No-Fault Insurance was invented?
It makes sense because no one likes to feel like they've failed, and it's humiliating to have to admit to failures. Seems obvious that the shame of ever successfully being blamed for anything would drive an individual to try to shift blame to others as often as possible.
I'd like to suggest that if you're reading this, and you're interested in being the most awesome person anyone knows, then you stop blaming anyone else for anything. I don't mean for the rest of the day, or until the end of the week, I mean FOREVER. For the rest of the time you possess your current consciousness you NEVER blame anyone for anything. And don't blame inanimate objects either. It's always your own fault.
BTW, I know it's the Age of Lawyers. I know you're missing out on some great opportunities to cash in on someone in your neighbourhood who didn't scrape the ice off the sidewalk which made you slip and fall and bruise your tailbone. You accept the fault that you should probably learn to identify ice and how to adjust your gait accordingly.
You also won't slap a lawsuit on the pharmaceutical company who's 12-page list of side-effects didn't include birth defects. It is your own fault for trusting your government to approve products for you to ingest without risk.
Unavoidable car accident? Well, here's a tip. If you put enough human beings in automobiles, and accelerate those vehicles fast enough - for long enough - someone is going to get hurt. If it's you, can you honestly act surprised? Call it bad luck if you want, but your luck was good enough to keep you from getting decapitated in the process, which, when you think about it, doesn't seem so unlikely.
Life is risk, life is failures and they are all your own│Unless you're a child, if you're in the process of maturing you should be afforded some protection by your parents.
Maybe the problem is that no one wants to mature - which makes you Peter Pan, and if you WANT to be Peter Pan I can't stop you, but you might want to re-evaluate your choice by reading the play or even watching the kid's movie, even Disney admits that Peter Pan is a self-centered juvenile that is only liked by children who don't know any better and who will never be able to establish loving or meaningful relationships. Then again, maybe you don't want your life to have meaning or love because you've taken such an interest in what you think other people think of you.
Ultimately, if you can't blame yourself, you can blame me. I'm not afraid of failure, I'm actually collecting it. Just stop blaming people around you, its toxic.