#feedist tips

[growmydarling]

I told my gf about feederism and she seems interested although I wouldn't know how to make her explore her feeder tendencies. She is definitely a fat admirer and she likes to touch my belly and when I go on top of her I always rub my belly onto her privates and she goes crazy for it but I would like to more things kink related or make her know more her feeder side

maybe try being open with her about how you like being touched on your belly and you like how she appreciates your body. let her know it arouses you to see the contrast of your bodies. it turns you on when she is under your weight and your big body compared to her little one, especially your stomach. see how she reacts to that. it sounds like she may agree!

[growmydarling]

Thoughts on neck fat? I'm not quite big enough for a proper double chin (sad) but I am getting neck folds.

My boyfriend is into it but idk if I like it yet

(also tips on how to increase calories?)

so super cute, very adorable 😍 tell yourself a silent affirmation whenever you notice your rolls. i am thick i am luscious i am beautiful!

adding calories can be done by slowly integrating more high cal snacks in- chocolate covered fruits, snacks cakes or candies, greek yogurt with granola. never skip dessert. add cream and cheese to meals!

[growmydarling]

So I’ve always been in the skinny side but I’ve fantasized about being fat for a long time, it’s so tantalizing and excites me like nothing else. But anytime I’ve tried to commit to gaining I give up pretty quickly - the discomfort after a stuffing or feeling self conscious being the major factors

Do you have any suggestions how to get over these hurdles?

hi! well, i think pushing yourself to gain rapidly, while sexy, is not totally necessary. let the weight pile on slowly. eat whatever you like and as much as you like- you don't have to stuff yourself to get big. just eat high calorie or super nutrient dense foods regularly. keep snacks close at hand always. you should always have multiple meal options at home in case the mood strikes- ramen, pasta. frozen meals, canned goods and sugary candies last for a long time in the pantry! switch a few of your drinks every day from water to soda, juice, sweet tea, or sugary/creamy coffee. add a milkshake or gainer shake in, too. make hang outs with friends and family meal-focused. add cheese, cream, butter, and condiments to meals. focus on carbs. the weight will be impossible to keep off if you follow these tips! happy gaining!