#feelworthy

[koachkev]

Lack

When we believe in ourselves this radiates confidence and trust we can do anything. If people reinforced our positive attributes this builds belief and we won’t lack in self esteem. We lack confidence when no one cares and feeling unloved. . When we lack talent, learn from the best and have discipline to practice. We won’t lack support when we have relationships that nurture us to feel important .

When we know someone loves us we feel empowered to conquer what’s ahead with all the confidence in the world. If we experienced a lack of love when growing up it makes it difficult to have the self worth to achieve great things. When we lack confidence it lowers our self esteem killing the energy we need to fulfill our dreams. When we lack coordination we get embarrassed keeping us from trying it again and again which won’t let us succeed. 

Stop criticizing ourselves,

Learn what we need,

Feel worthy.

If we have enough information and learn a skill, this makes it easier to complete what we set out after. When we lack self worth we stay the same and have misery. If we lack knowledge we can’t feel smart enough to move forward to have peace and joy.

[koachkev]

Criticize

Where we experience success this builds our self esteem and gives us confidence to do anything. When we learn a new task and they don’t criticize us when we didn’t succeed, we feel like we could try again. If we don’t criticize others they will be more open to our viewpoint and this makes us happier people to be around. When we criticize others we can’t see what’s in front of us.

When we take off the training wheels from the bicycle to ride on 2 wheels, coordination makes it easier to achieve the task. We start to criticize ourselves when it takes longer to accomplish this feet when someone else did it with ease. When we feel insecure this makes us criticize who we are stopping any forward motion. If we don’t feel pretty we criticize our looks making it difficult to have self worth. The test score wasn’t an A and criticize how smart we are. When we criticize we stop progression. 

Be silent,

Make us unhappy,

Move on. 

There are limitations if we don’t feel worthy and gives us a negative perspective. We start to criticize if we don’t achieve and start to blame people. When we stop and take responsibility we won’t criticize ourselves seeing the way to fulfill our dreams. When we criticize this keeps us from peace and joy.  

[wacaruana-blog]

Notice how nonlinear and contorted this tree is? Yes it's beautiful, with a path and surrounding nature. How would 'you' label it? . But a tree does NOT label or judge itself, It does NOT say: "I wish I was that tree, I wish I had those leaves or those flowers, I wish I didn't have those marks, those scars, those uneven parts". . A tree just IS. There are no two trees alike. A tree lives as it is, and still grows, thrives, blooms, and gives shade and oxygen to humans and animals alike. JUST BY BEING ITSELF. . We however are lost continously in self-judgements and comparisons. We continously barrage ourselves with self-talk similar to the above, concerning our body, present life situation etc. It's ok, it's not your fault. It's your "programming's" fault, how you were brought up in this society & culture to believe that you had to look this way or be this or that in order to be loved and accepted and feel worthy. . Change that, step by step. Starting now. Be like a tree. Be yourself. Bloom, grow, thrive. Shine your light however and wherever you can. Share the love you have with yourself, and with those who have earned your trust. Then see how different your perception will be of the unique You. You can be in less conflict and more at peace with who You are. . #tree #bloom #grow #acceptyourself #loveyourself #programming #peerpressure #societalexpectations #feelloved #feelworthy #shineyourlight #sharethelove #trust #totd #mindfulmoment #mindfulliving

[danyflora]

#feelWorthy #youareimportant #youarespecial #iloveyouall