i'm a transneutral floretflux who is uranic, am i even welcome in this community? everywhere i go i always see fem-aligned nonbinary in people's dni, and how much people have demand me to completely change who i am (aka become masculine) in order to be accepted, it makes me believe that i'm not
Welcome to the community!! You’re non-binary and attracted to men? You’re nblm, plain and simple.
I am sick of the exclusion towards fem-aligned enbies in this space, it upsets me that we don’t feel welcome as a result. Lots of people on anon have expressed exactly how I felt when I first searched for nblm content on tumblr. It’s easy for me to feel more comfortable here now because I realised I’m transmasc, but I’m still fem-aligned and get uncomfy by some stuff so I’m gonna say it!!
We’re all non-binary, there should be no exclusion. I don’t understand the uneasiness masc/neutral enbies feel towards fem enbies. They’re not girls or women, they’re non-binary just like you! And newsflash, there’s not one type of non-binary; you can be oriented towards a certain aspect of gender in any way, and you’re still queer if you’re attracted to men and fem-aligned.
The only way I can perceive them not wanting us to interact is because they basically think we’re women, which is… enbyphobia. Fem-enbyphobia? I dunno. Whatever it is, it’s upsetting and harmful.
I’m so sorry you’ve had that happen to you anon, it’s completely unfair and very rude. Once again, welcome aboard 💜💙💚 💙🤍💛