i personally disagree w/ the last anon. it feels a little fetishiz-y when straight women (which you've said you are in your pinned) include content about mlm for the sole sake of fanfic, but don't respect us irl. leave us out of your smut, thx.
i totally stole this joke but... "fellas, is it gay to be bisexual in a threesome with your bro?"
but in all seriousness, i genuinely don't get what your point here is lmao. i've literally never said that i'm straight. i'm a pansexual cis woman. i'm attracted to men, and i also happen to find it attractive when men are attracted to both myself and other men (cause yunno... bi men do exist). my enjoyment of homoerotic content in fiction does not mean i don't respect actual gay men irl.
i don't view men who like men solely as the object of some sexual fetish, they're real people and deserve respect as such. consuming and writing content that includes non-straight men doesn't mean i'm fetishizing anyone. you can find something sexy in a sexual setting (whether that's in writing, in porn, in erotica, etc) and not let that bleed into how you treat everyday real people.
like, i totally understand that there are cis straight women in fandom spaces that do consume content about not straight men and fetishize actual gay men as a result (like... we've all been on tik tok, we know that some ppl genuinely don't know how to act). likewise, i know that there are people that make mlm content online but don't respect or believe in rights for mlm irl, and that's fucking horrible. but why would you assume that everyone making or consuming content that includes not-straight male characters are fetishizing gay men???
let's not make assumptions pls.
