If someone’s first comment on a fic, multiple chapters in, is a complaint, how would you feel about that? I feel like I’m overreacting being upset because the person wasn’t really mean, but idk. Might I have a piece of experienced fic writer wisdom?
That has happened to me before and it is kind of upsetting because you see that you have a comment and obviously you think that it's going to be a nice comment from a reader that is enjoying your fic and you're looking forward to it and then you read it and it's just someone with shit to say. It is really disappointing. I think that it's okay to be upset about it and it's okay to take some time before addressing the comment however you decide to do that. When this happens to me usually I will message a friend to tell them about the comment and be a sad sack about it for a bit, and also to make fun of the commenter. I guess maybe that's mean but I also think that it's wildly audacious for them to think that their opinion is so important that they need to announce it before they see themselves out. That's like being at the grocery store minding your own business and then some random person walks up, says "I don't like the selection of food that you have in your cart!" And then leaves. It's utterly ridiculous. These people are truly something else.
Anyway, as far as advice goes I don't really have much beyond it's totally okay to be upset about those kinds of comments even if they're not necessarily mean, because they are disappointing. Take some time to address your feelings about the comment before you reply back (or delete or whatever). If you have a friend that you can talk to, do that. And also just keep in mind that the things you write are not going to be to everyone's tastes, so them not liking it does not say anything about the quality of your writing or your story. It just means that it was not for them. And that is okay. They didn't need to announce it but they did and that's not a reflection on your or your talent. Try not to take it too much to heart although I know that's easier said than done
Sorry that was so long!









