#fimes

[trechosdeseries]

Parasita, 2019.

[dreamsclock]

poland— and what?? polAND dream stans ?? cancel poland already 😕😕

[c-ativame]

[ultimatela]

O Conto da Princesa Kaguya (The Tale of the Princess Kaguya), 2013

[thecinemood]

Rocketman

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Muito bom

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Insuficiente

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Very good

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Insufficient Uma cinebiografia honesta, crua e que não beatifica seu protagonista. Uma aula de como fazer uma boa biografia, exaltando os feitos do objeto sem mascarar suas falhas.

[colorisbyshe]

@fimes replied to your post: “@fimes replied to your post: “some nb genders don’t have a same gender...”:

yeah it feels really disingenuous as an argument esp when we consider AGAB and the fact that not only is gender performative but /consumptive/ in the way that like...the gender you perform is consumed/regarded by people in a certain capacity, and that capacity acknowledges the way you are able to move though the world & with what ease

It's like when people try to pretend straight trans people aren't materially affected by homophobia when like... in a transphobic AND homophobic society... they still very much are? A trans man who is misgendered by the state and legally cannot transition cannot marry his wife if their country does not have same-gender marriage.

Like, we need to be able to talk about these issues with more honesty and more openness to like... the actual realities we face. An afab agender person dating a woman is going to face homophobia whereas an amab agender person (so long as they are not woman-aligned) dating a woman will not. AGAB... does matter. It doesn't change the reality of that persons identity but it does... affect the reality of the material consequences they face because of how they are perceived by transphobic AND homophobic people. It's complex, it's messy. It often is almost a case by case thing (do/can they pass, are they recognized as their actual gender, what is agab, how are they perceived).

Part of the reason we have binaries are because they are very easy to organize and figure out. Nonbinary people AND people who have binary identities but identify as across them.. inherently blur lines and complicate things. In order to come up with solutions, we need to face these truths head on.

[eunych-born-eunych]

have I ever been more powerful than singing the chorus to Bike Dream off Half-Light by Rostam with @fimes while waiting in line at Wal-Mart

2 boys, 1 to kiss yr neck & 1 to bring u breakfast, get u out of bed when yr sore from the night b4 from knocking @ my door, yr head against the floorboards

[colorisbyshe]

@fimes replied to your post: “some nb genders don’t have a same gender to be attracted to!” which…...”:

tbh i never understood this argument (as a person who identified as agender for a good long time). like...atheism is still a religion? agender is still a gender?

like unless you are saying you are the only person in the world with that gender (which... isn't... how gender really works)... it's such a weird argumetn to make.

and like... while i wouldn't argue two agender people NECESSARILY experience homophobia (and it gets into murky water because at a certain point you DO need to consider agab)... it's still weird to straight up say no one has the same gender??