faenaleva replied to your post “I’m not opposed to dating…. I think it could be nice. But while I...”
I understand. I seriously do. I've been asked out by creepy boys in my grade, then when I politely decline all their friends constantly nag on me. Asking why I don't date them. It sucks :/
Some people you just get a ‘creepy vibe’ from. and in my experiences: that feeling should not be ignored...
I’ve been on a few dates with guys, and usually I have to text friends to bail me out because they start being a bit too creepy and it’s so off putting. I’m not expecting everyone to be masters of dating - nerves get the best of us. But ohmygods, so many straight boys have zero understanding of what basic human decency is... (also just because I go out for coffee/dinner with you doesn’t mean I’m obliged to kiss you. Bl )
finwie replied to your post “I’m not opposed to dating…. I think it could be nice. But while I...”
When I was 18 my friend tried to set me up on a date. After a week of pressure I agreed to at least meet him, and he was so COMPLETE opposite of me as someone could be.. and afterwards she got mad that I wouldn't give him a chance :p
uuurhg yeah. Sure: they might be nice. but nice doesn't equal attraction. and sometimes you just /know/ this won’t work. I know my friends mean well, and most of them get where I’m coming from. But one or two are a bit /too/ persistant about the fact that I’m still single >.>