I feel like this needs to get mentioned.
We literally fought in the car on his way to work before Halloween I think. I had to drop him off and I had hit my limit. He was mad and so was I and I was just like we can’t keep doing this. You accuse me of stuff and you’re wrong about it and yet you won’t work on things with me. He got mad because everyone was telling me to leave him and I was like no they were supporting my decision my choice because I felt like I was ready to leave you.
It was an intense conversation. We got everything out and in the end we fixed it. We got to his work and he was crying and so was I. I told him that I wanted to leave but I wouldn’t be fighting this hard to fix things if I didn’t want to stay. I only wanted to leave if I didn’t see us going anywhere.
Since then, we’ve both been trying to do better and we’re both happier. He’s moving forward and so am I and together we are moving forward. Now, I feel like we’re back on track and ready to settle down again.