#flaky friends

[steverogersnotebook]

Took tomorrow off so I could go see Fantastic Beasts 2 midnight showing with a friend (she wanted the midnight showing thing) but I haven’t heard word-one from her since she said “I have to buy tickets”. I guess we’re not going, or I was uninvited.

Ordinarily I’d message and say “what’s the plan?” but I kinda got tired of being the one to make the plans and organize everything, especially since she was the one instigating the event this time. I thought, maybe, she’d do the legwork on it.

This is why I always make the plans, I guess, so that everybody has a clue what’s happening. Especially the day of.

[whatsayestthou]

One of the many reasons why Max is an asshole.

[spi-ltmilk]

https://instagram.com/p/BV1EieYgSfu/

[senorelmeowmeow]

Flaky friends

God tier: cancels on you a week in advance. Reimburses you for the cost of the ticket, if applicable.

Good tier: cancels day in advance. Apllogizes, try's to schedule a new date.

Mediocre tier: calls you an hour before you are supposed to pick them up.

Bad tier: stops responding to texts the day of the event. Isn't home when you go to pick them up. Texts you a day later and gives half assed apology.

Shit tier: begs you to take them to an event, makes you buy ticket, promises to pay you back. Asks you to pick them up an hour after the event starts and go late. Isn't home, doesn't return messages, you wind up going alone and catching the last 45 minutes. A week later they act like nothing happened.

[baeliengurl]

Nothing more annoying than someone who expects you to be there when they need you, but are no where to be found when the tables turn.

[whatsayestthou]

What Max did to Chloe by abandoning her when she needed her most is seriously heartbreaking. But I truly gotta say Chloe is way better off without her. No one needs shitty friends who are flaky and conceited, petty, jealous, possessive, manipulative and overall dismissive of your feelings and who dislike everything you do. There are so many things wrong with Max I want to make a compilation of facts so I could take the blindfold out of your eyes.

Life is Strange 1 was about Max’s guilty conscience for abandoning her friend and making constant bad decisions. It portrayed her mental instability, her reality literally shattering around her and having a mental breakdown. This was her purgatory.

Be good to your friends, boys and girls. Keep in touch. Commit to your choices and plans. Don’t let them hanging. Let them know you’re there when you need them and show it by your actions and words. Let them be themselves around you, let them be free.

[thatonebutterflypoet]

Have you tried making friends with people who have different personalities? Maybe try talking to the shy quiet person or someone who has different politics than you. You don't always need to hang around people who like similar things.

Well definitely won't be reaching across political lines. But the friends I do have are a range. All artists in their own sense but they range from don't speak at all to being the host of entire shows. There's brilliant engineers, painters, singers, librarians, professors, etc. But trying to get them to hang out is like pulling teeth so I give up

[punchyfruit]

Woke up at 6 am to make breakfast and have it ready by 8 so the boyfriend's bestie could eat and that fucker never even showed up.