not aro related at all lmao but i have followers here not elsewhere
i’m FINALLY going to be getting accommodations for my college!!! basically like a pass to turn things in a little bit late because my brain and i have some disconnect around like. time. and doing things. i can usually get stuff done almost on time and it’s been a struggle for most of my life that college severely exacerbated
my therapist and i were talking about how i feel bad about not getting stuff done right now (ie: i keep dissociating for a few hours a day) and how that kinda stuff happens with a stress trigger for me. and guess what i find stressful?
deadlines :’)
and just like. idk how it is for y’all but i thought that they wouldn’t even try given that my university’s mental health services were like hmm you aren’t adhd even though you have a lot of the symptoms bcs you weren’t a problem child. (though honestly adhd and autism’s overlapping symptoms are like. ahhh. either would explain a lot)
and here my therapist (who’s nb!!! i’m always excited by that) being all like. “have you considered getting accommodations? we can set that up. i’m not 100% sure of the process but i know my supervisor and i can set you up on our end, and if figuring out the stuff you need to do on your end is hard because of your current circumstances we can work on that together in our next session”
me: *surprised pikachu face*














