#aboutlastnight a night out on the town is rare for me these days. Much different than it used to be. Necessary supplies have shifted from condoms to tums and tylenol. 😂 I’m no longer using that drink as a self-med for problems way too strong for the alcohol to address, so just the one (vs a previous 10+) is more than enough in a night. My bank account and my body both appreciate it. (My body would clearly prefer zero, tbh.) It also means I get to remember the whole night—the conversations, the performances, the subtle but meaningful moments, how I got home. It means when I can’t sleep after getting home, I meditate and write instead of... whatever I was doing (or actively not doing) before. It means a lot of things, and mostly it *means* more to me, in general. #QueenoftheNight is like a family reunion, to paraphrase @djpowerinfiniti, and it was kinda cool to be there as a far more whole, centered, and self-loving person than I was only 2-3 years ago. Cheers to that. #personaldevelopment #tampaflorida #floridadrag #transgender #genderqueer #genderfluid #femmeftm #nonbinary #boyswithlonghair #transisbeautiful (at Southern Nights TAMPA) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4wCWS_JFzg/?igshid=78d4y6p3vzdl