a con artist who wants to make you his partner in crime. but not with how you look. he goes to man-only clubs because that's where the richest of them go. so he starts masculinizing you. he teaches you how to be a charming man, one who others think they can trust their money with, one who is masculine in the dandy way, without being too extravagant.
he teaches touching your skin lightly so you can adapt your mannerism, putting his face too close to yours. he makes you learn about different types of wines and gets a little too touchy, in a respectful way, when he gets drunk. he is wonderful to be around and now you are a man whom others can say the same.