#forgivablefoundations

[alloverthegaf]

I'm not ace, but may I offer my services as a bi lady as security to patrol your ace neighbourhood and keep the aphobes out?

we would love that and can I offer many multiple hugs in way of gratitude and thanks WE LOVE YOU

[strange-grace]

forgivablefoundations replied to your photo: how does a cat have references. who does one get...

Do you have to have known Zepher in a personal or business setting to be able to submit a reference??

“applicant demonstrates strong cuddling skills and is able to flop in patches of sunlight with minimal supervision.”

[bengesko]

forgivablefoundations replied to your post: As of late, a LOT of small rules we have on the...

I feel this. Where I used to work was exactly the same. They corner cut, or would do things like not double verify stuff or not chase up discrepancies that could lead to later problems and it made me so aggressively twitchy. I pointed out where someone’s signature didn’t match the one on record and got “meh, it’s probably fine”, I was so pissed I had to leave the room.

IT’S SO FRUSTRATING.

Like, we have this pressure plate at our desk next to the conveyor belt/specimen chutes, and we put our bucket on it until we’ve emptied it- then we take it off, and the line sends us another one. Well, we HAVE to start with nothing, leave nothing on the plate when we clock out, and this guy leaves something on his so he can turn himself on in the system, then sit at his desk and dick around for ten minutes and THEN lift it to call a bucket to him. And he never gets in trouble for it, but the ONE TIME I did it on ACCIDENT, I got yelled at.

Even if I didn’t get yelled at, it still pisses me off. I wish I knew why rule breaking makes me so twitchy :/

[bengesko]

forgivablefoundations replied to your post: Got to S6:E11 of Dexter and had to nope out...

I never got that far in the series, but if you’re implying what I think you’re implying - Yikes.

Deb and Dex, yeah. idk if anything happens with it, but Deb has complicated feelings and I couldn’t watch any further when their dinner got awkward.

[bengesko]

forgivablefoundations replied to your post: So after …five hours????? I finally have clean...

I get this a lot, and for me it’s certainly an autism thing. I have a plan and if I cannot implement my plan exactly when I wanted then I get frustrated & angry.

okay so it’s not just me- a few folks told me they get that way, too. (One of which is autistic, too, lol)

I’ve been like that a while- since I was a kid. If I actively WANT to do something, and CAN’T, it’s like a KNOT of hot wire in my chest and I get so ANGRY that it’s hard to focus on anything but the hot fury in my chest. If I get to do the thing? Back to normal as if NOTHING happened

[javisfreckles]

forgivablefoundations replied to your post “Hey just curious, where is it said/implied that Damien is trans?”

One of the dialog options on one of his dates starts him talking about clothes. He says he was happy he could even find Victorian style binders.

notapoptosis replied to your post “Hey just curious, where is it said/implied that Damien is trans?”

he's talking about victorian fashion on the first date and says includes binders in the list of clothing types

Ah, cool, thanks you guys!

[tehjai]

Happy Birthday! x

:) Thanks!