1. some days, when the tensions are high and you're both spitting poison in your words, he will cry. don't mistake his tears for weakness. he is strong. so strong. at the first tear, melt. call him baby, sit in his lap even if he tries to push you off, kiss him and let everything be okay. 2. he has trouble expressing his frustration in a calm way. be patient, do not provoke him. he may seem scary, but his heart is what rules his actions. tell him you miss him, cry, tell him you love him; his heart is so that it won't allow him to stay angry. 3. make love. it will be the resolution to all your fights, the celebration to all your achievements, and will fill every chance in between. it will be a language just the two of you speak. it will be your haven. 4. trust him. please, trust him. there is nobody more honest, nobody more good-intentioned. believe every word he says. except when he tells you how pretty you look; he's being biased. 5. accept his apologies. just take the sorry. and never let him feel as if his apologies don't mean anything to you 6. he won't leave. he isn't wired to leave. he will stay when it gets rough, when it gets hard, when you are hard to love and when you don't want him to stay. do the same for him. stay. 7. love him. every second of every minute of every hour. love him the way he loves you; without conditions and without hesitation. this one won't be difficult.
to the girl who has him next
