Jervin’s Birthday Dinner/Mini-Rave/Weekend @FOSTER CITY
I was looking fw to this weekend for a hella long time. It was everything I needed after a long week. Been feelin’ shittay and who else to bring me back from it all than amazing friends, bomb food, some drank, and some good-good.
Lemme tell you. I was stuhhhh-ressed those hours before the work day ended. Cratus’s renewal dropped on me last min. Couldn’t get ‘em in on time with that short of a notice and the late rsp from TRA. I ended up getting out like 3:30. Still had to finish packing too since the week was loaded with errands. Did I mention I had eddy an hour before I got stressed? LMFAO. Well needed js.
I get to Jay, who was out and relaxed right when errrthang hit the fan for me around 2ish. So he was just big chillin’ til I got there. He did his shoppin’ and whatnot so I asked if it was best to shop in Newark, or near Foster City so that the groceries would stay fresh. He said Foster City, which I hoped for anyways so we could be right there and over in just 5 minutes.
We get into Foster City’s Safeway, picked up 3 items on my way to the back fridge for the mimosa juice. It was near the dairy section when it fiiiiiiiiinally hit Jay.... He forgot the steaks and eggs. Oh mannn... I shut down for a second. I was quiet for a minnnnnnute. A goodass minute... then I suggested that I buy the steak there at Safeway. He was insisting that he drop me off then go back for them... I get it. He would save $, but he would lose time spent and we’d be waiting for him for dinner to start. That’s when I started panicking. I felt bad cause after a couple phrases of not necessarily yelling but for sure frustrated.. I could hear myself and how a few shoppers were looking at me... I had to walk it off and get the next items to cool off.. He kept hugging me and apologizing. I knew he was sorry...
Pat called within a few minutes asking me to get Jerv’s RedBreast as a birthday gift. That’s when it hit Jay that we totally should just buy it there, and that I was right about losing time if he left. He would have his fam just eat the steak and eggs and handle it from there.
[7:00PM-9:00PM] We finally got outta there and for real made it to the airbnb 5 mins. from Safeway. LadyBUD was throwinnnn’ downnnnn in the kitchen. The full rack of ribs and seafood boil was FIYAHHH. J&P were making chocolate-covered strawberries, while Jay and I worked on Henny-Mojitos. That is my muhhhfuckin’ SHIT. Jay was doubting the taste but it was bomb.com. UGHHH. Yaaaasssss!
[10:00PM-ish] After our fam meal, we got comfy in our robes. Jay connected his Mac-mini for music, Jannie set up her lights installation, and we supremely Tik-tok’d. That shit was fuckin’ mainey. 15 minutes after Jannie watched Tik-tok, she said she was happy. We was like nah boo, you prob food-coma-ing from the food and tipsy from the Henny-jitos.. til Lady said she felt the same like a second later... THEN ME. My “WOWWWWW” ass I swear lmfao.
The girls and I were fasho on the same vibe cause not only did we watch at the same time, we got cute and consented with each other. We created this wholes acute kiss and pyramid kiss. A bunch a cuties, I’m tellin’ you. Plus Miss Jannie over here pullin’ hair and whatnot. The fellas had their moment outside, big chillin’ and relaxed. Then once they came back in from having their moment, we all had our hot couple moments. I think it’s hella cool how comfortable we all are with showing affection for one another. In otha words, PHub moments LOL. I gotta say, all my friends are pretty haaawt.
After the PHub moments, Day Ones and Day Twos did their thang. The Twos were on the floor reppin’ their thang with their peace sign. The Ones finaaaaaally have their signage- the middle finger. Honestly doper than throwin’ the one/pointer finger up to the sky. And that’s how we came about ours. Lol the MF guys I swear.
But what really fucked me up? Was how deep were getting into our friendship. I had to express to them how happy I was for everybody and how we came a long way. How I care so much about them that I pray for us all the time. How much I love them overall. I had deep moments with Jervy for sure. Jukes without a doubt. With Pat, we had many missed opportunities due to dark times, but look at us now.
He’s done everything he could to prove to us he’s sorry. Made up for it as best he could since 2014- which I wondered how it came to where we were! Pat reached out to Jervy after the break-up. Jervy clarified he took a step back from everybody too. Even Jukes. So he reached out to him.. then they reached out to me and surprised me with Pat. Fast-FW back to the night! It’s been 8 years.. 8 years of making up for lost time. 8 years full of struggles, but for sure love. I looked at Pat, recognized all he’s done and let him know we’re square. No more holding it over his head. Not even small jokes/jabs. “We’re square”.
JERVY over here.... apologized to me for the whole protective thing with Jay. And as I was trying to accept it, he rightfully cut me off to say “wait” so he could express further why he cared so much. Our history for sure helped us put our guards up, and hence why they were doing it out of love... Yo.. I swear I could’ve cried, but it was nothing but the good vibes were for sure stronger than tears.
I think overall, we all got stronger in some type way within the 6 of us. Whether it be the girls talkin’ about each other’s signifs, showing consensual affection, and how we are ourselves with each other- something really hard for girls making friends with other girls; sharing hot moments with the boos; and gettin’ deep with the Day Ones.
Supreme rulers of the world, watching Tik Tok, shots of heem, deep talks, kisses, hair pulls, and hand grips later... (side bar: shoutout to Pat remembering the marines came to school and I was the only girl who showed TF out for the pull-up hang).... it was already MF 5:00AM. The guys were outside chillin’, the ladies were KO on the couch, and there was a tint of morning-blue in the dark sky. It was time for bed for sure. We were laughing cause it was a “9-5″ work shift! CUHRAZZZY we was up like that.
It was a night/morning in Foster city well spent. Worth every penny, every second of waiting for, every second of enjoying, and every ounce of love in all of us.
Here’s to many more memories with the Ones and Twos.
