hi there sunshine! its been a while since ive been on this blog to ask so ive forgotten my anon name, but recently, a court case regarding my grandfathers custody of me (i’m 15) was just closed and i won the case - which has made me INCREDIBLY happy, i’ve gotten my energy from before back and i feel insanely happy and glad, i even got the motivation to draw a ton today unlike usual and finish tasks and chores. but sadly my friend is kind of dragging me down? 1/2 - (new anon name!!! four04)
they’re acting numb and lack of emotion when i finally have been able to express my happiness. i’ve been friends with them for long, i’ve done all i can to help them and guide them and advise them even when i’ve been feeling down too,but honestly,now it just feels like some sort of excuse to dismiss my happiness?they were all happy when i was upset,but now that ive gotten better, they’re suddenly rly down and whatever i do to help they just make excuses,its draining me, any advice? - four04 2/2
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Hiya darling,
I’m so glad your grandad won! That’s amazing!
Honestly, and this sucks to say, but I don’t think they’re as good of a friend as you want them to be. A toxic friend is happy when you’re low, and annoyed/miserable if you’re doing well. I’d suggest maybe talking to them, because perhaps there is a friendship to salvage. But maybe, distancing yourself from them is for the best.
You are at a good point in your life from the sounds of things. And no one should be dragging you down.
Lots of love to you 💛