#foxxy asks

[foxxyboxy11]

Hey, i don't get how to shift

Hello!

Truthfully the how doesn’t really matter all that much! But in case you mean the legit basics of “how to shift”;

First state your intention on which reality you want to be aware of. Then focus on that reality, have confidence that you are truly there. And done! You know now how to shift!

Seems to simple and good to be true huh? But it is just that simple.

People believe shifting is hard or complicated due to what other people have said and society. In this reality you must work hard to get what you want, and if you didn’t then you didn’t earn it.

But that simply doesn’t apply to shifting, since shifting is a law of the universe. Shifting does not care of what humans in this reality say, nor does it care what other realities have to say.

Back to my first point, if you are trying to figure out the ins and outs of shifting, I encourage you to ask yourself why. Why do you want to know the ins and outs?

Are you curious? Feel you are missing the key to shifting? Feel like everyone’s hiding the big truth on how to shift?

If it’s the first question I highly recommend this post from my mutual! He explains how the brain actually shifts. Link

And for the second two questions, neither of those things you will find by figuring out the ins of shifting. Because there is no key, and shifters aren’t hiding some big secret on how to shift.

Shifting doesn’t have a key because the door was never locked or shut in the first place. It approached you open, now whether you shut that door or not is up to you. But it’ll open again if you so wish.

I hope that answered your question and thank you for ask. Happy shifting!

[foxxyboxy11]

Hey, what would you advice someone relatively new to shifting to do to practice, learn and get better? Because I've seen a lot of posts that at least to me feel like "Okay, now that you have the basic shapes of the owl, lets start working out the details" and I'm staring with my one circle, making a much better impression of an owl than my drawing.

Hey!

First, that owl joke was funny😭🙏🏻

Second, I can absolutely make a little post about some advice!!

Now my advice comes from years of shifting and so many shifts I’ve lost count. So my advice won’t be the same as others, but all our advice has one base:

Intention makes shifts. When we say all you need is intention to shift, we mean it.

Methods, affirmations, scripts, meditation, I consider all those just fluff we do for fun or ease our human brains here!

~My biggest piece of advice though, be okay with being confident in yourself. You aren’t being cocky or lying when you tell yourself you shift either ease.

Having even the littlest bit of confidence in yourself will help you go a long way. Pair it with intention and bam you’re shifting left and right!

Be confident in your abilities because you can do this, and you will.

~Dont go into a shifting attempt with the mentality of failure, because if you do you will. This applies to to thinking “oh what do I have to do tmr if I don’t shift”

~This one goes with the last one. People don’t often think of this or even mention it in posts. (I think people think it’s implied but it’s really not)

The shift doesn’t end after you wake up. Just because you woke up here doesn’t mean you didn’t shift. You intended to be there and so you are. You intended to shift, and so you did. The shift was finished when you said that first intention.

~My next piece of advice is a little hard to word for me so bear with me. Dont read hundreds of posts or watch hundreds videos on how to shift. Even for experience people I suggest the same.

So many people suggest so many different things and it will just confuse you. Find a few creators you like and stick with their advice to see if that works for you.

~The toughest love advice; BE PATIENT. This one was hard for even me to learn because I am so impatient. You will shift, everyone can. It might take a minute to do it successfully but I promise you will. We all are awareness, so we all can shift.

~I also suggest having a few little quotes you say to comfort you. This is more to ease the human brain than it is to help shift. Heres what I use almost daily;

“My temporary emotional state does not halt my intentions”

“I am awareness, I am destined to shift”

“I can shift despite my situation”

“It’s okay to be unsure or scared, I can still do it”

These are a few that I use to help ease my mind.

~For your practice part of the question, I suggest getting comfort with the idea of constant change. When you start shifting more constantly your surroundings and situations will change a lot. Being uncomfortable with change can make it a bit harder to shift more often.

Even if only one thing is changing in your environment, that is still change. Big or small, being comfortable with it.

I hope this helps you, even if it’s not too much advice. Shifting isn’t complicated, so there’s only so much advice I can give.

Happy shifting!!!

[foxxyboxy11]

how old are you if you add the time you've spent in different realities?

If I had to make a rough estimate I’d say im about a little over 200?

It’s hard to judge that since my waiting room has no time. Yes I have day and night but sometimes those days are longer and shorter. Im not sure how old I am in total of all the shifts I don’t even remember. Who knows how long I was a star or even a fox😭🙏🏻

[foxxyboxy11]

How can you be more in control of what happens and what not? You have any tips? I feel like I'm picking up overflowing water with only my hands. Constantly fighting against myself. I make things happen that aren't good for myself

This is gonna be a tad but tough love but I hope it helps.

You are in control of what you desire. You are the only person who decides what reality to be aware of. No one can take the power to decide what reality you are aware of away from you, unless you so choose. You can manifest both good and bad. If you only want to manifest good, then say that.

Dont tell yourself otherwise. Dont let those pesky doubts get to you. You are not attached to any reality or any body. If you take away reality and body, you are just awareness. Take comfort in the fact that you decide. Take comfort in knowing that you have the power to manifest good.

I understand how you feel, as if some other being is pulling the strings that are meant to be in your hands. But the whole time thise strings were in your hands, you were just letting those doubts guide them. You can ignore those thoughts. Let them flow down that rushing river and pass you. Even when picking up water with your hands, you still pick some up. It might not be buckets full; but your hands still hold water. Your hands still hold the good you wanted to manifest.

Be still with your manifestations. Dont argue with them, dont fight them, dont let them tip you. You don’t even have to persist when those doubts over take you, the point of persistence is to come back to those manifestations. If you’re having a bad moment and you can’t seem to get the doubts out, focus on yourself and calming down, and then come back to them. I have found it’s much easier on our human body and brain here to do it thay way.

I also want to assure you that you are not doing anything wrong, you are not failing. You have manifested and shifted so much good and even neutral, even if you aren’t aware of it. And yes you may have manifested bad, but that doesn’t make you a failure or even mean you wanted it.

You hold the control of what reality you are aware of, and what to manifest. Keep that knowledge close to you and let it comfort you.

[foxxyboxy11]

What do you think about the theory that we are only shifting our awareness? Personally i think it makes no sense because that means that the people’s around us could have their awareness elsewhere and thats just kinda tacky/weird, though i can’t think of a better explanation.

Im asking because i feel like the situation with your s/o proves that theory otherwise so I’m wondering if you agree with me! I feel like people should be more open to questioning and thinking deeper into the general theory’s about shifting it seems most just play a game of follow the leader (^_^;)

Hello!

I personally use the theory that we are shifting our awareness! Most theories actually have the same theory as well. Kinda like how legit all methods for shifting are just intention methods.

I do understand how it can be confusing though, sometimes I struggle to wrap my own head around it. But I have this analogy thay I use to help me understand. (Im not sure if I saw this somewhere but I just remember it)

Imagine you’re sitting on your couch watching a tv channel, you’re enjoying your time laughing and crying with the show. But eventually you decide you want to change what you are watching, so you switch channels. Did the previous channel you were on suddenly stop existing when you switched, did all their experiences suddenly not mean anything. No! That channel still exists, all you and they experienced in that show also exists! If you apply this to shifting, all realities simultaneously exist, we are connected to all of them because we are the ones observing them.

When you think about others not being aware here, I want you to remember that awareness is not necessarily them. Awareness has no identity, no body. The people you are seeing around you are not some mindless drones when the awareness is not there. They are just as they were before, it’s just nobody’s watching that channel at the moment. Their awareness is just viewing their life there or in other realities.

When I said my lover chooses not to be in a reality adjacent to this one, i choose not to shift to those as well. I choose not to be aware of a reality where he is with me out of respect and love for him. It’s like if you hated someone here and then someone shifts to a reality where you love them there. It’s a little uncomfortable and disrespectful to you here. It doesn’t directly affect you, but it shows they don’t care. I could shift to a reality where he is there, but that man there wouldn’t be my lover then.

To your last topic I totally agree! You should question what you believe and stick to what you find comfortable! If you don’t want to belive in the awareness theory you don’t have to. Shifting is limitless, which means the methods ans theories are too. People do tend to follow the leader or the one who’s shifted. It’s something I try to encourage people not to do. You should seek out what you want to believe in. Or you don’t have to understand how shifting works at all if you don’t want to, I didn’t when I first shifted.

[foxxyboxy11]

Have you ever wanted to find out the secrets of the universe ?? ヽ(•̀ω•́ )ゝ✧

Let me broaden your horizons. Which universe?

Serious though, what counts as secrets of the universe? Like they not hiding anything from us. We know that with shifting right?

[foxxyboxy11]

Hi, can I ask how to meditate by observing the breath? What do I do with the thoughts that come to mind? Do I have to concentrate 100% on my breathing?

Hello!! Im sorry it took me so long to answer! <33

Observing or focusing on your breath while meditating is simply to give the mind something to focus on. When your mind is focused on something, like breathing, you’re able to “block” or “forget” what’s going on around you. When thoughts come to your mind while focusing on your breath, just let them pass by and come back to your breath. It’s not bad if you get distracted for a moment, the important part is that you come back to what you were focused on.

You definitely do not have to 100% focus on your breathing. To focus on one thing can be hard for some people, especially those with ADHD. You could focus on two or three things if you’d like. I’ve been able to successfully meditate by focusing on my breathing and the music im listening to. (Also side note you can listen to whatever music you want while meditating. It doesn’t just have to be calming meditation music)

Meditation does not need to be as hard as it seems in books or when other people talk about it. You don’t need to hum or cross your legs or sit there uncomfortably if you don’t want to. You will have more success if you are comfortable, and able to focus on something in order to reach that meditative state. Meditation can be short or long as well, I suggest doing short meditations as you’re just starting out and then go longer. When I first started I did a five minute meditation and just focused on my breath. I also suggest not forcing yourself. If you start to get really uncomfortable or your mind is getting really loud, take a break. Journal or take a moment to get comfortable again and quiet your mind, then come back to it.

[foxxyboxy11]

So I didn’t think this would be something I’d also have to post for my asks and dms but here we are.

Please do not message me or send me an ask saying how you’re gonna k*ll yourself if you don’t shift. Or that you’re in a dire situation. Im not a genie, I can’t make you shift, I can’t manifest for you.

I will not respond to those types of messages. I will just delete it and block you.

There are other ways to ask me for advice. If you want advice on how to manifest in not good circumstances I can definitely offer some advice.

But again, i cant do what your awareness is built to do, for you. You have to change your reality. I can’t do that for you.

This may come across as mean and I apologize if it does. But these are my boundaries.