Debating with Love
Buongiorno! The last two weeks were some of the most exciting of my entire life, between the Holy Week liturgies here in Rome and the topics we've been covering in class. I struggle to put it all into words, but I'll do my best to give you a tiny taste of it!
In Italian class on Tuesday, we got to divide into teams and practice speaking Italian by having a debate; in my section, our topic was the U.S. Presidential candidates. At first, we were all pretty intimidated by the exercise, because discussing a complicated topic without using any English at all sounds impossible. However, we rose to the challenge and found that, for the most part, we were able to relax and even have fun as we navigated political vocabulary and did our best to understand each other and respond. Of course, we speak at least a little Italian all the time as we travel around Bella Roma, but I find that I'm more confident in my speaking abilities after the debate. Whether I end up discussing politics with native Italians or not, I think my ability to come up with sentences of my own from the vocabulary I know has improved, and that's always useful. There's nothing as satisfying as having even a short exchange with a native Italian and being understood! As someone in my class said toward the beginning of the semester, being able to communicate with someone helps you to see them as a person rather than just a part of the scenery, and as Christians we should all strive to do that with every person we meet.
On a similar note, in philosophy we've been studying charity, particularly how Thomas Aquinas talks about charity. Last week we had an intense discussion about whether it is better to love one's friend or one's enemy, and then we moved on to whether charity can increase in the soul, and if so, how. These topics are profound and complex, but they were important in the minds of the medieval Christian philosophers we're studying, and they are still relevant to us today. We know by faith that we should love both friends and enemies, and sometimes we run into situations where we must choose between an act of charity for a friend (that is, a brother or sister in Christ who has charity toward us) and an enemy (someone who does not have charity), and Aquinas concludes that it is actually better to love the friend, because it is proper to love those close to us more than those who are not as close. We also know that we should increase in charity throughout our lives, since this pleases God, so it is helpful to understand that charity isn't something we can add to ourselves or something that increases in a quantifiable way, but rather something that increases by becoming more deeply rooted in us and actually conforming us more to God.
In Apologetics we talked about salvation and whether we are saved by faith alone (as Luther and many modern-day Protestants believe) or by works. Fr. Lebsock described the stance of the Catholic Church on this issue, which is that we are saved by grace (i.e., God's life within us), and through grace our works of charity are joined with Christ's one redemptive Work, so that we can be saved through Him. So, we are saved by faith in Christ, which allows Him to work in us and transform us into His likeness, so that we can be justified. I found Fr. Lebsock's explanation both informative and beautiful, and I was reminded of just how amazing and unfathomable God's love for us is. It was the perfect topic to discuss right before the Triduum, when we commemorate Jesus' death on the Cross and the day of our salvation, the day that won us grace we never deserved. Once again, I was grateful to be studying the Catholic faith in the heart of Rome, with professors who care deeply about their own souls and about those of their students, rather than just facts and grades.
Learning to debate with charity and to communicate with others for the good of our own souls and theirs are some of the most important things we can ever learn, and our curriculum here has helped us do that in many ways. I am eternally grateful for my time in the Eternal City, and I hope you can all have the same experiences one day! Ciao until next week!
















