Who feels their mother is trying to control them? I do (and pressures of studying and passing exams)
i have been revising for the past few weeks for my mock exams, and i thought, “why not take a break today from revising at home?” (i did do some sttudying after school, when i was still at school at the end of the day) and i was then on my phone, after doing all my chores ( i know, im not as lazy as i thought, or you thought) and thne she sees me on my phone, ranting on how i dont revise at all, which is a complete lie to start of all. And that i will fail if i dont revise. Fair enough, if I dont revise at all this year, i WILL fail, but for this one day, i think that i should have a break. especially from the continuous ranting that almosts lasts about an hour, actually wasting my time for any break at all.
I swear, sometimes i wish i had a break from my mum. I mean , She’s one of the best mums I’ve ever seen in my life (observing other mothers i mean), but she tries to control me almost to be really smart, and tried to empathise with me, but it fails completely. And she wont ever see this because she would kill me otherwise. See what i mean???
Finally, to get nearly everything off my chest, if any mothers see this, and have done the same thing to their daughters, or even sons, if they have haven’t studied at home yet during the day, or plan not to study at all in the day,it doesnt mean they arent going to study at all. But on a certain day, this wont mean they wont do it. it most likely means that they are too tired, and need either rest/sleep, or rest for their mind, by having one day break, or even only doing about an hour of work instead of having five straight hours of work, having wasted that time because you arent able to process all the new information, or the staple the old information in your brain properly. Even my teachers reccomended that we should do little bts of work at a time, so at least the information stay in the brain, and wont go through the other side of the heads ear.
just something mum around the world should consider.
(also I apologize to people if the ‘i’s are bugging you. i cant be othered topress the capital letter button. trying to type this as fast as i can)
~to add to this, I am a middle child, who therefore has Middle Child Syndrome. You have no equal rights to anything, or any chore of your choice. Or that you can't do anything you want without being shouted at all the fucking time~
