We must let go of the life we have planned…to accept the one that is waiting for us.
I write. Thats what i do. For some its therapeutic, for others it serves no purpose. But me; I write because sometimes my own imagination gets the best of me. I live for the what ifs.. And may haves.. I live for the story in my head. I did until i read those words.
We must LET GO of the life we have planned.. To ACCEPT the one that is waiting for us
They say God makes his own plans for us and no matter what we plan he can always change our direction. Are we not allowed to make our own plans? Are we simply just imagining and building false hopes? Maybe.
But Id like to think its better to be surprised then to always have things calculated. So far my life is a series of uncalculated decisions. Everyone seemed to be worse then the next. And when i finally started to plan my life, everything started falling apart even faster.
From friends to boyfriends to trying to keep myself above water its not easy. But i live for quotes. Its corny but it helps. It helps when you get reminded ‘hey you re beautiful’ 'Make sure to love yourself today’ 'Stop fixing others before you finish fixing yourself’ (yes this helps)
Being reminded to put your life first, that you are important it helps. Only sad part is when life doesnt workout the way you want it to. Its sad when we HAVE to let go of plans weve stared on paper about for years, maybe even trying to finish someone elses plan that took them their lifetime to create. KEY POINT: Letting go sucks and accepting things is dreadful. Yet why not for a minute imagine how much happier we would all be if we learned to just accept certain things.
No im not saying accept that maybe your life will forever be in tangles but for a moment just accept the chapter. Be at peace, take a deep breath and say 'i accept that my plan did not go as planned. Tomorrow is another day, another day, another chance to start over. Accept that in the morning life is waiting for you..'