#friends+

[greattitmouse]

[severified]

at the end of the day, it’s you and your long distance best friend against the world

[pusheen]

[girl-in-ur-daydreams]

Sometimes I wonder if I’m ever missed by those who don’t speak to me anymore.

[incognitopolls]

For this poll, assume the following:

You are home and not busy.

You are at your baseline energy level, i.e. it's a normal day and you're not extra tired or stressed from any atypical prior events.

The person in question is a good friend or close family member whose company you enjoy.

No plans have been made with this person.

If a friend or family member showed up at your door unannounced, asking to hang out/do something together, would you be happy about it?

Yes!

I'd feel conflicted

No, I would not like this

I'm not sure/other

Voting ended onNov 17, 2025

This isn't about a specific scenario, more of a general outlook difference. Anon's partner sometimes goes to certain friends' houses unannounced, and while anon's partner knows their friends well enough to know that this is acceptable, anon is always baffled by this because anon would not appreciate an unannounced visit no matter how much they like the person.

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[me0w-me0wme0w]

I like using tumblr because none of my friends use it

[suzzy-5]

the intimacy of calling your partner by adding a little "my" before it, my baby, my darling, my sweetheart, my life>>>