#friendzoning

[homocidalhomosexual]

i am my own worst enemy

theres nothing quite as loser lesbian as friendzoning the girl you have a crush on even though you’re pretty sure she likes you back because you’re terrified of rejection and ruining the friendship.

[lounesdarbois]

Qu’est ce qui a perdu les Arabes ? Le sucre (Lire l'explorateur Wilfred Thesiger, Le désert des déserts).

Qu’est-ce qui a perdu les Blancs ? Le fun. C’est à dire l’anti-sobriété, le pas-sérieux, la mondanité, le cabotinage, l’alcool, la satiété, la médiocrité des standards de vie, la radinerie, la mesquinerie, la gynolâtrie, l’impiété, la déloyauté et la délation, le friendzoning.

[btsandvmin]

“Don’t ship friends”

You might have seen the small drama on Vmin twitter, but even if you haven’t first of all good for you. Secondly, as a Vminie I am sure you’ve heard it many times before either way. Vmin are PLATONIC soulmates. Don’t ship them, they are JUST FRIENDS. etc. (I mean we must all be quite tired of it by now.)

The thing is....

1. I am sure ALL members are actually friends, or even consider each other as family. If it doesn’t stop you from shipping all of them don’t dictate what other shippers should do. If you can ship one ship but need to insist others doesn’t ship a rival ship that’s you being a hypocrite no matter what reason you might try to tell yourself.

2. Falling in love with a best friend is a real thing. It happens and it does not make shipping two people who consider each other best friends (and soulmates) impossible or immoral.

3. You need to remember that shipping is FANTASY! You can’t dictate why or who someone ships because it’s based on preference and imagination. 

4. Taehyung himself has a song with the lyrics “are you my best friend” and “how could I know one day I would wake up feeling more”, if even he seems to believe falling for a friend is possible then who are shippers to say we shouldn’t ship Vmin.

5. Do these people know anything about being LGBT+ and how many couples have referred to each other through history?

(Just gonna leave this scene from Bohemian Rhapsody here, don’t mind me.)

“Jimin is my only friend“, sure. But honestly it doesn’t have to mean “Jimin is only my friend.” And even if it did it shouldn’t matter because once again, shipping is fantasy not reality.

Anyways, sorry for this rant. I am sure I am preaching to the wrong crowd (as Vminies I am sure most of you are already well aware of what I am saying in this post), but I just need to went my frustrations. It just amazes me how hypocritical some people can be. I really need people to understand what shipping is and what it isn’t and let other shippers ship in peace.

(I can’t believe this brought me back from my break... Sorry.)

[iamonlyhereforthefreefood]

I still don’t understand why people act like being friendzoned is the worst thing in the world. Like it sucks when your crush doesn’t like you back, I get that. But isn’t it wonderful when your crush still values you as a person and enjoys spending time with you?

[dancing-cockroaches]

Y’all: girls and guys can be friends

Also y’all: LOLLLLL THAT DUDE IS SOOO DEEP IN THE FRIENDZONE!!!

[wlwandimack]

Muffy

After this episode, I'm not quite sure how I feel about Muffy. They definitely still have a lot of chemistry. I'm just not sure where the show is going with this. Either way, Marty should not have reacted the way he did.

Maybe Buffy does like Marty, but is scared having emotions will make her weak. This has been part of her character in the past and would make sense.

Maybe Buffy doesn't like Marty in that way. Marty really does need to learn to deal with rejection. Hopefully if that happens they can still remain friends. That could be an interesting storyline.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

the friend zone myth ruined the phrase ‘friend zone.’ like that shit should be referring to an amusement fun park you bring your friends to, or some secret base where you all hang out, or a laser tag stadium where you team up or are pitted against you bff. sheesh sexism ruins good things

[cactushobo]

Friend date was pretty good. Matt stayed till he was summoned! Ps friend zoned ya bud