#ftm help

[zippyzzap]

guys.. does anyone have any passing tips for me

specifically any haircuts that would make my face more masculine

[transmascinator]

What soft packers do you guys use for a subtle bulge? I want something that's barely noticeable, I'm terrified of accidentally looking hard 😅 the more affordable the better (as i also plan on buying a jockstrap to hold it in place and only have about 100 dollars to my name right now). I'm finally getting tired of using socks lol

[dodgeryy]

Binding methods for competitive dance?

(Costume top is lined spandex and sleevemess and I'm a 32DDD) Wanted to try tape but I'm worried have too much boob? A good compressions sports bra brand recs also is slay. But really excited to serve masc this season so any help is so much appreciated!!!

I usually don't bind at all or use little clothing illusions when I'm feeling masc bc I have massive booba. this season I asked for the men's costume/uniform and would love any reliable binding ideas pease. Also this is for winterguard specifically but low key rlly niche

[minibunz]

I hate doing this but life seems to be trying to take me out lately and I’m struggling. My job (which is working for my family) is only on the weekends so I’m making barely enough to get by or even make the commute, and also just lost my car in an accident so my mode of transportation is unreliable rn, and with any available money I have going directly to commuting and bills- I haven’t been able to afford groceries in over a month and probably won’t be able to for a bit longer if life keeps up this way 🥲

If anyone is able to donate/tip or even check out my etsy I would appreciate it 🩶 shares/reblogs also help just as much 🩶🩶🩶

Ca$happ • venmo • kofi • etsy

Fansly (I’m not currently putting out content but tips are still accepted there as well🩶)

**im also willing to do tarot readings for tips as well (i have 4 years of experience reading 🫡)

[rowan-berrie]

Does anyone have any tips for binding with kinesiology style tape with a larger chest/body type? I've ordered some for myself but I'm having trouble finding resources that aren't aimed at smaller chested and/or more petite folks than myself

[goonbunnii]

Hi loves, if any of you have had top surgery in California and have a surgeon you’d recommend I’d love it if you could message me your recommendations 🖤

[bo6obambo]

I need more trans friends. I am Ftm. Looking to talk about our problems and the the things only Ftm people will get.

[acornhatsandcats]

Private transition support, organized by Kaiden Blakely

Hey my name is Kaiden. I’ll share a little about my story, and why I’ve made this. I’ve b… Kaiden Blakely needs your support for Private

Hey my name is Kaiden. I’ll share a little about my story, and why I’ve made this.

I’ve been out for 8 years now, and on the waiting list for 5 on the NHS. Due to cuts, COVID, ever increasing living costs, laws, and already a very long wait time increasing by 3+ years than it was with no signs of anyone in the year I signed up being seen anytime soon, it’s come to a point where I must take the next step as soon as possible. I’ve tried and tried again to save for it, but, the reason I’m on the NHS in the first place is because I can’t afford to save for this all on my own. My plans where to begin this month/next, but saving isn’t that simple.

This would change my entire life, and I simultaneously am saving up for top surgery and that takes a lot out of my budget as that’s the one that is a deal breaker as not having it prevents me from even getting dressed or going outside or wanting to be seen by people at this point due to dysphoria it’s gotten so severe, especially since I stopped being able to bind a few years ago, due to over binding for 4 years with cheap binders, random items to chest flatten, and I can’t exercise as well anymore so I feel like I never pass to a degree I’m okay with. When I could bind and exercise more, I felt amazing, I felt like I was living life, I did so much during that time and since then I’ve been miserable most of the time and isolated myself so much I have seen maybe 2 friends in a year. I feel awful being seen.

I’ve resorted to using T in circumstances which are self medicated numerous times in unofficial ways, and I don’t want to do that anymore as it’s so risky. I want a safe transition, I want a secure transition. I am not a medical professional no matter how much I research how much T to take. I just want the security of that and no longer have to play by eye, run out, start again, wonder if I’m doing it wrong, and play around with my health and experience my hormones destabilising when I can’t get anymore T whereas on prescription that won’t happen (so much, I know some people withheld it in the pandemic but that’s not usually what happens).

I’m 25 now and wanted to start at 18, technically before then, but 18 was when I could try. I signed up at 20 finally. Doctors so far have been ultimately terrible with listening, and only in the last 3 months have referred to me as my gender after 5 years of knowing otherwise.

My mental health has rapidly deteriorated over the years due to living like this as I’ve touched on previously in the post, and I want to move onto the next step. Finally. I hate asking for this, but I’m at a loss of probably nothing happening for years to come and I can’t wait anymore, I really can’t. 5 years on a waiting list for your first appointment for anything is no joke.

I would not ask if I wasn’t desperate, if there’s anything I can do in return I will try my best.