#ftm relationship

[to-make-you-smile]

If my boyf were here to cuddle me that would be perfect rn. Wanna nap with him holding me.

[idratherstayslytherin]

You know what brings me down? The fact that so many people in trans community wouldn't date either pre-t guy when they are post top surgery and T, or on T guy when they are pre-t, or when you're both pre-t. On one hand I get you with the whole jealousy, comparing yourself to them thing, but on the other hand; do you want to tell me that if you really liked this guy, developed huge romantic feelings for him and felt like he was your soulmate, you wouldn't date him or at least try? In my opinion if you love someone it doesn't matter where in your life you are, where in your transition you are, but what matters is the love you both share. With that alone you can support each other no matter what either of you are facing. You can get through it together. I met two pre-t guys two weeks ago and they are absolutely the cutest, most supportive couple ever. What it takes is a bit of trying. Yes, you will compare your transition to his, so what? Even if he's on T and had a surgery, he'll still have potter problems in his life, well still have dysphoria. No matter what problems you both are facing you can help one another if you truly love each other.

[beautifullyunbrokendisaster]

I’m not quite sure where the time went, but seriously...How sexy is this guy? 😍 7 years and my heart still skips a beat. Think I’ll start writing some memoirs again..

[teetharefortearing]

I can't even tell you how much of a relief it is to be with someone who simultaneously acts as if being trans is no different than my favorite color being purple while also acknowledging that sometimes it is a huge weight on me/certain milestones are big deals. I vented about this with my therapist for a few months that it felt like I'd never be able to find someone who didn't mind and was still interested in me and then bam I just found her out of nowhere. She also just never acts like being with someone who's trans is a huge burden and genuinely wants to be with me and it's a breath of fresh air and I'm just really thankful and hype about all of it. I'm a lucky guy these days.

[wearepararnore]

no one cares, but: look at my beautiful gf :( im literally so confused like howd i get her to date me, this is WILD in all seriousness, being trans and all has caused me to have some serious body issues (obviously), which has caused me to believe on MANY occasions that i'm not lovable. ofc i've had people have crushes on me before, and i've had plenty of unreciprocated crushes on others. it is just still so baffling this this great person likes me. like she's so cool, idk how i did it dude.

[snakeknives-ravioli]

Relationships are great because sometimes you don't even have to dress up fancy for your partner. All it takes is wearing the shirt they got you and they'll still know how much you care. Just that shirt. Not even pants. No underwear. Especially no underwear.

[quantumlychaotic]

New video is up! This week’s topic is dating as a transgender individual.

Haha, I totally screwed up my editing at the end…super awkward, lol. We'll call this the Director’s Cut!

[beautifullyunbrokendisaster]

I am so proud of how far you've come in the past two months. You are so handsome and strong my love. I don't know what I would do without you <3 @rufioyouknow