Nov 6, 2025
Need some advice, I’m on the fence grow my beard out or shave it down to stubble and leave the mustache.
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Need some advice, I’m on the fence grow my beard out or shave it down to stubble and leave the mustache.
4 years on testosterone! Happy tranniversary to me!
My boyfriend and I recently went to an evaluation for getting his wisdom teeth removed. We fill out the paperwork and get called back, everything is looking great until the nurse says she has to leave the room for a moment. We are left in there for a few minutes and then a new member of staff comes in to talk with us.
She goes on to introduce herself and clarifies that she works in a completely different part of the clinic, which was a little strange because patient intake wasn’t a part of her job. Well, the reason why she was sent in was to tell us that my boyfriend cannot be treated because he’s transgender.
The official reasoning was that he was “on such a high dose of steroids” so he cannot be seen there. The steroids in question was his testosterone prescription, legally obtained and regularly monitored by his medical team. He didn’t even put down the dosage by the way. And the reason why this new member of staff was sent in was because she was the only queer person who worked there.
This happened in Raleigh, by the way, which is one of the most liberal cities in NC (also the capital!!!). This is a city where you can’t go 5 minutes without passing a rainbow flag. This is a city that claims to be progressive. This is a city that prides itself on diversity and non-discrimination.
Yet one of their medical facilities, one that is said to be high end and accessible, mostly working with disabled patients, legally discriminated against my boyfriend because he is a transgender man.
But sure, trans men don’t face oppression.
Trans joy 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
All transitioning did was morphing me into my dad
Didn't realize how much fat redistribution and no bloating I'd been through in the last seven months until I was walking around in boxers and a binder this afternoon and caught myself in my full length mirror.
Had to compare it to the photo I took two days before starting testosterone to prove to myself I wasn't imagining things.
Literally crazy to see it, but also to see the slight change in my arms from working out since June (nothing too serious, just push ups and weight lifting about half an hour to an hour 5 days a weeks) and the physical demand of my job with the effects of testosterone (before t, I swear I struggled to put on muscle).
My recent searches and watch history: “FTM Top Surgery”
YouTube: BALL TRIMMER ADS??? YOU HAVE BALLS. MAN. HAIRY MAN. TRIM YOUR BALLS WITH THIS MANSCAPE BALL TRIMMER. BALLS.
Take the wins and gender affirmation where we can get it, people.
TRANSITION GOALS🙏🙏 (Yes. Both as appearance and voice. I'M NOT ASIAN BUT PEOPLE TELL ME I LOOK ASIAN :^)
LIKE LOOK AT HIM AND HEAR HIS VOICE (His name is Park Byeong Hoon, he sings as Ivan in ALNST amd ZOMST specifically in Black Sorrow, Cure, Nowhere and Paratise) AND HIS VOICE.. GOODNESS, TRANSITION GOAL FOR ME🙏