50 Days of Fetishes Day 13: Casual Fucking With
One of the best parts of being in a long term kinky relationship is the part that happens between scenes. Sometimes that looks like flirtation. Sometimes it's a partner taking something I've written and using it to threaten me with a good time.
Sometimes it's reaching out to poke at someone's brain just because you can. For example, I sent this poem to a subby partner yesterday out of the blue "Roses are red/violets are blue/I know that this text/will hypnotize you". It worked. :) (Unsurprising- part of our relationship is that everything works)
Now- there's a lot of knowledge of partner and safeties and time we've built into our D/s to get to the point where something like this works and feels safe- wouldn't recommend universally- but it's a wonderful power rush to just casually reach out and tweak their brain in this way. It feels affectionate too - like sending someone a text to let them know you're thinking of them. It feels flirty- like I'm pulling his pigtails. I'm also so grateful that there's someone out there who genuinely enjoys being fucked with in exactly the same way I like to fuck with someone- who shares and understands all the dimensions of it. It's really rewarding and hot to have that in my life.
It's the cross feelings of "Oh, I adore this person, so I want to be really nice to them. And to do that, I want to be very mean- to overpower them in an unexpected way that we both want to work- just to show them that I can do it whenever I like."* A power trip in the best way. Scintillating.
*Within reason, yadda yadda
