Hi I’m G.G and my partners K.C I’m a Leo and they are a Scorpio we’ve just hit the year mark love each other a lot but also had a really rough month last month and it’s made me afraid for the relationship. What do we need to grow past what’s happen?
Hi, G.G!! How are you?? I used Tarot of Sexual Magic and Oracle of Angels of Love for you!!
What do you need to grow past what has happen? The Hermit, Seven of Cups (reversed), Four of Wands, Five of Cups, The Justice, Ten of Swords.
After this hard stage that you have passed both, my letters recommend you to learn and accept to live with the following lessons to strengthen your relationship.
Having a partner should not condition our time alone. These first months of the year should be used to experiment with yourself on a more spiritual level. It would be important to forget about the environment and the people around you, since they may be intoxicating both the relationship and yourself.
The time of fantasies must end. Both K.C and you should be more clear about what you want in your relationship. The distractions and temptations that existed in the past disappear to bring calm to your love life. With distractions and temptations I mean people or situations that could break your relationship.
The relationship is not lost, but it needs a strong commitment. It may be that you both attend a wedding soon, as weddings or births appear in your reading. We may also be referring to the birth of a new stage in your relationship. Both of you must understand that the relationship is not lost, but you must put effort to improve those aspects. You don’t have to change the attitude or character of your partner, but to solve the imperfect ones the relationship has and doesn’t let you move forward: not to be anchored in the lost, but to improve what must be improved.
However, my cards warn me of infidelity, betrayals or secrets that may be kept. We must not deceive the couple in any way, as this will imply pain for others and for us. Also, if you trust your partner, why should you marty yourself thinking that they can betray you or cheat you? There is one of the two who has very little confidence in the other and fears the worst of this relationship.
An advice for you: You can love without fear: Open your heart to give and receive love.
Trust is fundamental in a couple. If you don’t distrust K.C, why don’t you love completely and without fear? It is important to solve all the fears or problems that may still exist between you two to enjoy the future. When your fears (especially your insecurities) disappear, you will be able to love without fear and embark on the adventure with total security. One lesson you must learn during the next months is to love and be loved. Relationships not only involve giving, but also allowing us to return what we deliver. Open up and allow yourself to receive the love of K.C!! Analyze the obstacles in your love life and find a way to get them out of your way: fears, insecurities, lack of commitment, memories of the past… anything that can destabilize your relationship must be discussed and resolved before starting a new cycle with K.C.