#gamma-bae

[clovexei]

Omgg Libby frozen? That's so cute I never knew

OH YES! I tend not to tell people because I try not to bring up Frozen in general, but YES. She’s so full of light and sunshine and love and springtime energy! I’m surprised people can watch that movie and NOT be a little bit in love with her.

[clovexei]

I was thinking of pandemic haha

Oh! THAT MAKES MORE SENSE THAN ANIMAL CROSSING.

[ramesees]

Who really is Rhonda??is she a relative? Is she real?

OKAY LISTEN.  so rhonda is a lady my mom met while she was working at herbergers. they both worked in the jewelry department and rhonda says that when she saw my mom she “fell in love” at first sight and also knew immediately that my mom was “special”.

my mom says that she thought rhonda was weird but they got along well enough to be work friends.

and then rhonda sunk her disturbingly long, cat obsessed claws into my mom and has never let go.

and my mom is a nice person, so upon finding out that rhonda has no family, she started inviting her over for every holiday and staying with her when she needed a place to crash up in the city.

rhonda is legitimately crazy.  she is a real life, true pathological liar. we have caught her in so many lies its insane, and she never lies about things that like??? matter??  she lies about stupid fucking shit, like that she saw the dog jump 15 feet in the air and then do a summer salt.  (she has actually legitimately claimed to have seen this and gotten mad when we told her thats not possible.)

she also claims to be a “white witch” and have witch powers.  incredibly, she is also a devout catholic.

one time she got so drunk on thanks giving that she started crawling around on her hands and knees all over the house making sexual “cat” noises and she scared the dog so bad by doing this he wouldn’t come out of the room for the rest of the night.

she hates my dad because she’s DISTURBINGLY protective of my mom and she shit talks him any time he’s mentioned. one time i told her my dad had the same phone she did (which he does) and she actually threw her phone on the ground and said “OH GOD” like it had burned the flesh off her hand.  she also thinks she’s a partial owner of our dog even though my mom and i bought him 50/50 and all she did was call the people and tell them we wanted to buy him WITHOUT ASKING US IF WE ACTUALLY DID.  (we did, the point is SHE DIDN’T KNOW THAT.)

once she also got so drunk she literally couldn’t walk and then she fell down a full flight of stairs at our house and my mom had to call an ambulance and when they came she was crawling around on the ground yelling and she tried to punch one of the emergency responders in the face.  She had a mild concussion and looked like a raccoon for a month.

she’s done countless horrible things to my old roommate including but not limited to accusing her of having sex in our house with her boyfriend (which she never did), and also telling everyone at my birthday party about all the horrible details of her breakup with a long time boyfriend, despite my roommate making very clear that she didn’t want that information spread around.

basically just imagine like…. an 8 year old child with absolutely no filter in a 60 year old woman’s body, trying to pretend to be an adult and failing miserably and that’s rhonda.

[ramesees]

Um spoilers.... Lol

SHIT FUCK IM SORRY IT’S TAGGED NOW!!!!  i keep forgetting thats not common knowledge since im that asshole who looked up a shit ton of predictions before the movie came out and that was one of the theories i ascribed to the hardest U___U

[ramesees]

IT INVOLVES LUKE SKYWALKER THAT'S WHY I ASK

WHAT!!!!  SHIT!!!!!!!  IM ON IT!

[ramesees]

Have you seen the episode of xfiles "small potatoes"

NO!!!!!! BUT I KNOW ITS THE ONE WITH THE BABY TAIL!!!!  im in s4 rn though so it won’t be long until i get there U___U

[ramesees]

I've seen like 3/4 of it all the way through... Presbyterian church

you’ve made it farther than me... may the wish power be with you U___U

[clovexei]

Complicate everyone's day by explaining your gender pls

Sorry I left this unanswered! I wasn’t sure how to phrase my answer without taking my women’s studies books of their dusty shelf.

(Under a Read More just for length)

I don’t think, at the moment, that I have any strong ties to gender in general. When it comes to the presentation and behaviors associated with particular gender roles, I just want to wear what I want to wear and act in a way that is an ultimately Good version of myself. I don’t care about how those visual cues or behavior cues are taken. I wear what I feel comfortable in, regardless of the gender roles associated with the clothes. Gentleness when possible, diplomacy when possible, aggression where it matters, etc. – I don’t care how things are gendered when it comes to how I behave. I just want to embody traits and morals that I find admirable and that I want to see more of in the world. As far as I care, feminine and masculine are two options and I’m going to pick and choose the best from both to cobble together my ideal self.

So I guess agender or maybe demigirl would be the most accurate assessments. But for practical purposes (and despite a lot of unpleasantness inherent with being seen as female), I really like being in on the female side of culture. I love the socially-accepted freedom I have to wear pretty much whatever kind of clothes I want. I love the automatic freedom it grants me to be kind and gentle without any backlash from conflicting social norms. I love female friendships, which I think are, in ideal terms, a lot more comfortable/generous/embracing than male/male friendships. I love having female mentors who see me as one of their own. Women are fucking strong and amazing and I admire them so much and I honestly feel so honored to be able to be included in that demographic for no other reason than how I was born.

As much as I enjoy being mistaken for a guy, and as much as I might wish I had a deeper voice and (occasionally) the ability to grow facial hair, I don’t actually want to be a male. There are lady parts I don’t want, and for the same reasons, there are male parts I don’t want. But, equally importantly, there are some excellent examples of men whom I would gladly use as role-models and whom I admire a great deal, but at the end of the day, I don’t want to be seen as someone who might be a danger to women. I don’t ever want some regular person’s first impression of me to be one of discomfort or of fear. I want people to feel comfortable being around me. Being seen as female is a head-start in that direction and I think women can be comfortable around other women in a way they aren’t necessarily comfortable around men (and it might just be me who has that perspective, tbh, I do admit that).

I also don’t necessarily like how men are raised/socialized (no offense meant to any of the gentlemen I know – it’s just not the social landscape for me). Having a twin brother, I’ve seen a lot of how guys interact, and while the relationships change depending on friendships, I just don’t want that sort of relationship to be the template of my friendships.

On one hand, I identify as female for family reasons (I’m the only granddaughter, my mom has no other daughters, I’d rather by my twin’s sister than his twin brother, etc.). On the other, I love love love the social fabric of which that allows me to automatically be a part. So lady it is.