#gender speculation

[solreefs]

Might actually start calling myself plutogender.

This symbol is such a gender in a way i can’t even explain

[solreefs]

Am I transmasc?

[solreefs]

Spinny skirts make me feel weirdly masculine??

[solreefs]

Hey would anyone mind sending me some asks with it/its pronoun checks?

[felifeltfrog]

Please do not reblog.

Gender-related stuff and general identity anxiety rambling underneath the cut.

I know for a fact that I’m not trans. I don’t feel entirely male, but I am definitely not a female. THAT I know. But lately I’ve been thinking. I’ve been using non binary as a general term to describe myself and I’ve asked to be called they/them because she/her just doesn’t cut it.

Problem is I love being mistaken for a man. Or rather, I love wearing traditionally feminine stuff, like pink and frills and cute skirts and dresses. But I also love sporting those outfits with a traditionally masculine frame. Like, I’ve always loved being super tall and brooding, I love talking in a deeper voice whenever I can and I just feel so much better “manspreading“ and just generally acting very “un-feminine”.

I am so unsure though, Idk if I wanna go with a they/him pronouns because it’s so very fluctuating and fluid from day to day. Rn, in this very moment he/him feels really good referring to myself as. But at the same time I really don’t know and I’m so unsure and slightly scared I guess.

I just wish stuff like this were easier to word and easier to understand. I am so bad with wording stuff, especially when I am in a duracell-rabbit-on-speed kinda mindset (which is my brain almost 24/7). Idk I might change my pronouns but I guess I just need to think about it. I have difficult with big changes like this, things I know will make a huge impact on my life.

If I’m gonna try summarize it: I love cute pastelly things and bright colours. I love frilly skirts and dresses and adorable prints. That’s who I am and who I express. However I also love being traditionally masculine and that’s a thing I act like naturally; the way I talk and act and do has always been like that. And I love to be mistaken for a male. It made me happy back when I dressed in baggy pants and had short hair, and it makes me still happy to make people confused as to what I am. That’s also who I am.

Ugh I don’t feel like I’m actually making any sense anymore. Maybe I should’ve rather written this down in my Book of Thoughts (I refuse to call it a diary/journal, that’s way too much pressure), but I felt like if I write it down online maybe someone out there in the same or similar situation sees this and’ll reach out to me to talk. A subconscious or semiconscious reach for myself to have someone to speak with that actually understand my feelings fully.

Ramble done, Zombie out.

[dreamygayprince-blog]

yknow I've gotten a lot more comfortable with accepting that I'd rather i was born a male. idk what my gender is, but I know I'd be happier if I had a dick instead of a vag.

[tranzgendr-blog]

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[aaytyo]

I'm with you on that. I really don't think it's okay to speculate on someone's gender. That just seems really personal, you know? And I i find that a lot of times when people do it to Harry, they just base everything on stereotypes.

idk its just such a private and personal thing and doesnt seem like my place to say “oh hes female because this” or “no he’s male because this.” However i will praise him to no end for breaking barriers, that much is a given