#general help

[therobotmonster]

If you have a tumblr friend that does have enough spoons, can you tell them to send an ask my way?

I don't really have a lot of folk with I engage with in that way on here, so I'ma do the best thing I can.

If you can spare a spoon or three, amensch here is having a rough day with some family stuff and could use a sympathetic ear. I'm not in a position to provide such myself at the moment due to the issues upstairs.

[fanficsrusz]

Hello, I wanted to ask your opinion on one thing. I'm in a relationship and the guy is totally great, I love him. But he doesn't do oral sex and he is my first partner, I have no idea what it feels like but I really want to know. I have asked him a couple of times, but he would refuse (nicely). I'm lost, because I really like him and it seems stupid to leave him just because of that but also I want to experience new things and I'm afraid he will never do this (I do it for him because i like it)

That is a really hard thing to give a specific answer to, but I totally understand why you feel like that.

I personally think that he is 100% in his right to refuse to do oral because he might not like it the same way you may not like something else (Anal or something). You can't really force him to do it just because you want to try it the same way he shouldn't force you to do something.

The best thing I can suggest is possibly ask him why not. If there is a legitimate reason like he thinks its disgusting or he just personally doesn't like it, then fine. If however, he just doesn't want to do it because he's lazy or doesn't want to please you, then maybe you could talk it out a bit more and tell him how it makes you feel.

I personally wouldn't leave him just because of that because a relationship is more than just sex but i understand that it is annoying.

Maybe the two of you could try something else. There are a lot of sex toys that simulate oral sex with either lick like motions or sucking. They are amazing and I'm sure there is something that will suit you.

I hope this has helped you to some degree and I wish you luck in your oral sex adventures 😂❤️❤️

[winterhelps]

oie, vc sabe algum site/tumblr onde eu consiga achar umas palhetas de cor top? obg

oi amore !! de blogs no tumblr, eu conheço royalspalettes (o meu preferido), palettes,  color-palettesblog e spectrra (tem mais blogs se você for em /search/color-palette). Além disso, tem um site que eu amo usar (o https://coolors.co/), que gera paletas a partir de imagens (ele tem outras funções, mas eu uso para isso). espero conseguir te ajudar (:

[blackpxsources]

hi! sorry if this is a weird question but i was wondering how you got your gifs onto one page ? i hope that makes sense sdfdsfsd love your icons !!

hellooo ! it’s not at all, i’ll try to explain what i think ur talking about under the read more. hope it helps and sorry in advance hehe i might be not good at explaining ! ♡

STEP BY STEP under the read more of how i put my gifs onto one page.

♡

1. first of all u click down there to add a new page. 

2. then put the gifs one by one side by side on this new page. 

3. once u’ve finished all of them you’ll come here on the html and will copy all of it.

4. then you’ll click up there and change it from standard layout to custom layout and will paste the html on the ‘custom html’ space.

5. put the url after the “ / ”, click save and there u go !

the page is there with no theme, only the gifs ! any more questions my inbox is open. ♡

[arielrpt]

What is the difference between a gif hunt and a gif pack?

A gif hunt is when not all of the gifs are made by you and you just found them and compiled them vs a gif pack which is where all of the gifs were made by you!

[sims2packrat]

Hi, do you know where to find custom empty neighborhoods? I’m having a hard time making my own. Maybe I’m just a dummy lol

Hello, this really isn’t the kind of question this blog is intended for, this blog is meant for finding and reuploading unavailable and/or otherwise hard to find content from inactive creators. General WCIF’s should be directed to general WCIF blogs or forums with WCIF boards. Also you would have found some by simply googling for “Sims 2 neighborhood”. But to help you get started: 

MTS has hundreds of neighborhoods to choose from (here)

TSR has some to choose from too (here) (but MTS is more trustworthy so if possible get one from there instead of TSR since at MTS they actually check through what’s been uploaded)

I know there are also custom neighborhoods posted to tumblr too but of course right now I can’t recall names of anyone who has created those so I can’t list them.

If you meant neighborhoods that won’t have maxis townies spawning on them then you’ll need to install the empty templates and some extra hacks, you’ll find the instructions for that here. :)

[transgenderhelp]

Hi, I'm 21 and since I was in elementary school I've felt I was the wrong gender. But, I've always been scared to talk about these feelings because, as the oldest, my dad taught me that I need to be manly. That I need to like girls. But I don't. And recently, I've decided i can't take it. I want to become a woman, but I'm scared to tell anyone, and I don't even know how I'd start the treatments. My question is, how should I go about telling family and friends, and how do I begin the transition?

I think the most important thing I can tell you here is that you don’t need to have everything planned out right now.

Give yourself some time. It sounds like this is something you’ve recently started to come to terms with, So give yourself some time to be comfortable. Give yourself some time to accept who you are. Decide what steps you want to take.

Once you’ve given yourself a little time to breathe, decide who you want to come out to and in what order. Will your little brother be able to help explain to your dad? Is it not that important for some distant relative to know? Do you have someone you know will support you and care about you that you might want to talk to first? Is it safe for you to be out to certain people, such as coworkers, friends, or family members? Always keep your safety in mind. (For example, if it’s legal or common in your area for trans people to be fired or otherwise mistreated at work, you may want to have a backup plan lined up just in case.)

For some trans people, hormones and surgery help a lot! (Check out our timeline tag!) Some people, whether for health reasons or because they’re athletes or military or just busy, don’t see medical changes in as a priority, which is fine too. 

If you decide that’s something you want, 

if you live somewhere with single-payer healthcare, research your government’s policy because it might be covered at little cost

otherwise, if you have insurance, call your insurance company with your insurance card within reach and ask what your policy covers

if you don’t have health insurance and live somewhere with capitalistic healthcare, surgery in particular might be expensive (though hormones may be doable depending on your income). In that case, you’ll just have to look at the alternatives other people from your country take when they need healthcare but can’t afford it, such as seeking out nonprofits like Planned Parenthood (they do HRT now!) or, in extreme cases, traveling outside the country. Do your research and stay safe! 

Otherwise, many people gradually experiment with their gender presentation, trying out lip gloss, then maybe eyeliner, or perhaps tucking. Take a look at our feminizing tag! You don’t have to do everything suggested, just pick and choose what works for you.

Another important step for many people is deciding whether not they want to keep the name they were born with. Lots of trans people find that after they realize who they are, the old one doesn’t fit, so they take a chosen name.

- Mod April