Sometimes thinking of what you want can hurt. Let’s say you share a room with your little brother and you’re just totally sick of him and his booger-eating ways and wish you could have your own space. There are times when thinking of the curtains you would hang in your dream room and how you would arrange the furniture feels really exciting, but other times it just puts you in a terrible mood. The difference between these two cases is a good way of seeing the value of choosing when to get specific. http://bit.ly/2hGq2Z5













