I think you don't see reblogs of things I reblog from you if you're not the OP, so just thought you might find it interesting context that the OP of that anti-Latinx post started arguing with me about it with the assertion that non-binary genders do not exist (and the contradictory assertion that my viewing this as a trans issue mistakenly reframed as about racism/xenophobia is a misguided SJW conception of the world as social justice issues, while calling "Latinx" ethnocentric whitewashing).
Ugh, yeah, that’s something I disagree with, and I’m alarmed by the rise of comments I see in transmed circles like “Nonbinary genders don’t exist in non-Western cultures, it’s just their way of saying gay. Proof? I’m supposed to have proof? LOL WHATEVER, TRANSPHOBIC SNOWFLAKE WHO WANTS TO TAKE MY HRT AWAY. *flounce*”
But I don’t think the fact that that’s BS (or at least wildly unsubstantiated by people who don’t seem to want to prove it, which smells a bit like bull feces to me) invalidates that a lot of neologisms are not designed with non-native speakers in mind and really only make sense to people in on their creation. (I often wonder, for example, what non-native speakers of English make of “cis,” since its etymology is similarly opaque even to most of us!)
In fact, part of the reason I think… well, it’s not that I think people don’t get to or shouldn’t make up words. But one thing I consistently notice about neologisms, especially as they relate to trans people, is that certain subsets of the population seem to have real trouble adopting them.
For example, I don’t remember exactly when or who this was, but I remember a while back several neurodivergent bloggers who have trouble with language saying “I need you to know I can’t use your neopronoun. I have trouble processing language as it is, and the pronoun-set is one that my brain has serious trouble adding to. I hope you understand that, if I default to ‘they,’ it’s not meant as a snub.”
And from what I recall, people generally respected that and quickly picked it up. So where you used to have, like, “my pronoun is bun” (just choosing that one because it’s the one that became notorious, not out of a desire to imply anything about the person who used it), suddenly you started seeing like “bun/they,” meaning “I’d really prefer you used bun, but if you can’t, please use they.”
I responded to the latinxs post not because I think non-binary people don’t exist or that they shouldn’t make up words, but because my brain went “ah! You know, I’d nodded my head vigorously when people said disability made adopting this hard! And you just explained why I have trouble adopting this other similar neologism–because something that breaks how you learned your second language makes you go ????? Wow, thanks!”
But somehow… I feel like… eh. There are certain political views that people automatically associate with saying certain things, such that “if she said latinx is hard to learn, she’s either racist or only okay with binary trans folks or both! BOO URNS!” is an instant pattern match… even if you actually said “You know, as a non native speaker, I can really relate to this, because that’s so weird looking I cant’ even pronounce it INSIDE MY HEAD and that’s straight up unnerving,” which contains neither anything racist nor anything denying the existence of or disrespecting nb people.