@holylanterns 💖💖💖💖 @goingtobuffalo honestly it's just so freeing and liberating to finally accept and love that part of yourself bc it's like......if I wasn't Trans or queer I wouldn't be who I am today and I really don't like the thought of what I'd be like if I were a cishet bc real talk, I came out as gay JUST before I was "in too deep" in this weird "nice guy" phase I was in. Like it wasn't full on "waaaahhhhh girls won't date me but I'm so nice!!!" But it was like "I really like this girl and she's turned me down a bunch of times but she's been nice to me and says she likes me why won't she date meeeeee" but then all of a sudden when it hit me like "wait.....I think I'm actually gay" it's like I made a complete 180 lmao So basically what I'm saying is: being gay saved the world from one less "nice guy" ndjfkdke