Jul 25, 2024
tessplease | instagram
#i was 1000% like this when i was younger#ha! hahahaha#formerly a Leftᵀᴹ then grew as a Rightᵀᴹ#good discussions#Right initiated a tricky conversation that needed to happen confronting Left with realistic expectations + suggesting a dating model#that is ACCESSIBLE + realistic + aligned to suit Left most naturally (full assumption that Right is NOT just pandering for a ‘yes’ here)#Lefty is getting their shit absolutely rocked; they have assumptions of what a relationship looks like + are unconvinced that#change—CHANGE. change is worth pursuing#i agonized over starting every relationship i’ve been in Except For One#“i can’t make you happy” / “dating me will not last and you WILL be changed”#/ “i cannot justify entering a situation where i provide you with everything i am and you delude yourself from a future without me”#god i was so raw/intense ;—; but BUT. BUT it is BETTER to aggressively rip into every possibility than to run from character development#RIGHT AT THE END WHEN RIGHT SAID “NO”??? hOLY **SHIT**#MMRHRDHSHDHEHNR#(assuming there’s no mind games to pressure Left into making rushed judgements which it doesn’t really seem to be the case)#It’s giving “i’m not waiting for you to be ready for a committed relationship. as far as i can see we’re already acting like one”#“AND ILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE IF THIS ISNT GOING ANYWHERE DAMN IT” AAAAHHHH I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS#literacy#dating and freedom
