#guy troubles

[nonbinaryfinery0101]

After School Special

So my ex boyfriend broke up with me, and two weeks later our mutual friend tells me he has feelings for me

What are boys, I thought my gay vibes were gonna protect me

But no, my life has officially become an after school special (son of a bitch!)

Our mutual friend is awesome and if we were in a different time frame, things would be different. But my emotions are hella muddled. Idk what to do here

Any advice?

[slt4bangtan]

Don’t worry I’ll keep ignoring the hurt I feel because I should know better

[just-another-winchester]

Does anyone out there know how to speak boy? Cause I really am losing my mind trying to figure out if this guy likes me, if I annoy him, if hes just being polite, or what it is. My friends think he likes me, but as much as I love them Im honestly afraid they dont totally see it clearly since they know me, I dunno, I just hate this feeling I keep getting. Im afraid to even talk to him cause I dont wanna annoy him

[ofangelsandanime]

Can I angry-rant a little? I know I shouldn’t be mad at someone over something they can’t quite control, but I’m honestly tired of havin to repeat myself.

I’m gonna put it all below the cut, so it’s not in people’s faces.

I’m mad, y’all. There are these guys I like to talk to, right? I love them to bits, and care for them deeply!

Problem!

A few of them have crushes on me, and I really don’t feel comfortable with that. I keep having to emphasize and insist that I just want to be friends with them and nothing more. They say they get it, but later turn around and imply that we could be more than friends. And every time I’m like

You have no idea the hoops I gotta jump through in order to evade their attempts at flirting with me! I keep tellin y’all I just want to be friends, my dudes!!! My kindness and affections for you people are strictly platonic! It doesn’t mean I’m flirting.

To a certain dear friend of mine (if you happen to stalk my blog, too): I know I have some problems that keep me from wanting to be in a romantic relationship, but trying to push me into one isn’t going to solve that problem.

Also if I choose to be with someone, it’s going to be with a man that puts God before me. I want the guy to lead me to Christ every day! I want him to have a passionate love for Christ! Put God first, not me!!!

[aplusprimadonna]

Pissed off at a guy friend, who apparently likes me. He just is extremely asshole like towards me especially if other guys are around and also he treats his best friend more delicately than me?!? I mean I’m not fragile but he seriously does not tone down his strength at all even if I say something hurts. Now that he figured out I’m angry he just keeps on telling me i should not react like i do and that im overreacting because he is always nice to me. I have red marks on my arms and some small blue ones aswell because he just does not fucking stop. I do know he is a nice guy and just joking around like that but he is only blatantly “violent”/ overly strong with me and that does not only obviously hurt my body but also my feelings. But people still keep on hinting that he really likes me and there is some romantic tension between us. This is sp fuxked up and pisses me off immensely. I hate guys that aren't straight forward and sometimes act as if they like you and then act as if they don't. I seriously do not want to interpret all his actions wrong but that's a shit ton difficult when all our friends keep telling me he is totally into me but he acts like he's john fucking cena and I'm his competitor. Help guys

[orionevenlouder]

Logical part of me wants to be mad. Emotional part of me still wants to talk to him. Tipsy me decided to go with my emotional side. I have a headache.

[vibrxncy]

Anyone any good with boy advice? Help a clueless girl out!

[givingadvicedoesntmeannotbroken]

When a guy you like starts mothering you....

....fucking run cause that is creepy shit right there....