#guy advice

[downassasian]

How do I slide into a guys dm’s?? It’s one thing if he has made a recent post or story but this guy is radio silent (but active). Someone help me.

[comfortcouture]

Sleepover Friday!

I wanna bring this back! Come chat with me in my inbox; tell me about your crush, ask/give advise, gush about your fav band or tv show, tell me a funny story, ask me random questions and ill ask some right back!

[sparklyracoon]

Sure, leave me for someone else, and I tell you I will not want to be your friend anymore... actually I told you I would prefere to never see you again.

You slide into my DM telling me you miss me. Yeah I miss you too, ass! No I really do, all the nice moments, everything I saw as perfect you just took away.

And now you dare talking to me that your d**k misses me! Wow! No I am not your mistress.

Oh and trying to change the subject, wont work, because you are browsing p**n and sending me pics.

Thank you, I am still on my no contact days with you. But sure, do this and set my recovery from loving you back a few weeks. This is why I can't talk to you. You would want me as your mistress, but fuck off because I want a real man who wants me, no one else and actually think I am a special someone to them, not something to say to make sure you have me hooked.

Don't want to hurt someone? It is so simple, you do not hurt the ones you really care about. It is not like it was an accident, you knew what was going on. I do not know which words to trust coming out of you. It is all 🐃💩

[rose-oracles]

I've met a guy who lives around my area and the first time I've met him we talked briefly because his dog was off the leash. Since that day I've seen him around a lot, I do want to talk to him again and have full intentions to but every time I see him I freeze and my heart starts beating so fast.

He has signs of him wanting to talk to me and trying to smile at me. I feel so bad because I honestly freeze up lol. I know he thinks I probably don't like him based on my non reactions. I just don't know what to do.

Do you guys have any advice about this and has this happened to you?

[kagemane]

Ok so, there’s this guy that added me on FB a couple days ago. We were acquaintances back in high school, he went to a different school, but we’d see each other at punk concerts and stuff.

I always thought he was cute and had a semi-crush on him back in the day. He’s been liking a lot of my posts and I do still think he’s very cute. He’s my “type”: more feminine facial features, tattoos, has his life together, no kids, and likes cats. And he’s single!

I kind of want to message him and see where it goes. But I’m not sure how to initiate it as we were just acquaintances. Is it too forward to do so or do you guys think a dude would be into it?

[ageforlove]

Is sending a kissy face flirting or being nice?

[perpetual-imperfections]

Guys i need ur help

Listen i am the best wing woman out there, i got guy friends i just was as FRIENDS, but i feel like if it ever boiled down to just blatantly saying that theyd say pass.... im a good wing women, i can hang, like i hope u get laid, i will be friend her and set u up if need be. LIKE WHY DONT GUYS WANT/APPRECIATE THAT?!

[binkbinkbonk]

GUYS THIS IS GENIUS

So about a month ago my good friend set me up with this guy. I had never been set up before and I had avoided romance for over a year. I go to another good friend of mine and ask for advice. First of all, this girl is amazing with relationships platonic or otherwise she is v in tune with your emotions. So she recommends this game she calls "Twenty Questions But Not". The premise of the game is literally to just ask questions about the other person over and over again and they do the same to you, taking turns. It gives you a way to ask things about the person without coming on too strong. GENIUS I KNOW. After two weeks of playing daily me and this guy knew just about everything about each other. Literally I know more about him than I do most people in my life and vice versa. At three weeks we confessed feelings for each other. I'm serious you can use this game when getting to know ANYONE and you will have LOTS of trust and get super close. Start with simple questions and eventually start asking deeper or more serious questions. This guy and I played for so long we had nothing to ask anymore. I highly recommend this omg omg