I'm the anon who ended their question in "u". I would never date a male but have given blowjobs to two males. I'm worried that with my own sexual orientation confusion that is becoming more and more public that people will be annoyed at me for being gender confused. I've had a horrible time in school for being gay and although my friends are fine with my gender confusion too I'm worried it'll get out if I become more open about it. I'm unsure so do you have any ideas what I can identify as?
If you feel gender neutral, that’s what you are. It’s okay to not want to come out, though, if you think it will make school more difficult. I’m sorry that you’re having a tough time at school, I know how much it sucks :/ But back to being confused, there are lots of gender neutral lesbians. Recently, we were introduced to the term ‘gynephillic’ and 'gynesexual' (I think that’s the spelling, I’ll have to go back and check to be sure), which describe people who are attracted to women. Also, you’re very lucky to have supportive friends (: