Cricky’s Hard Nos
I have been asked while also thinking about posting some of my characters and my own hard nos for asks and such and have finally gotten around to first of all talking about my hard nos before I get into any of my characters hard nos!
A general rule of thumb. A hard no for me is a hard no for my characters! They can’t like it if I heavily dislike or cannot handle it because then I can't write it. Some of these nos are going to seem a little silly to say, and I may miss some and come back to this later to add more, but I’m saying them as I think of them anyway just to be upfront.
Some of these things I may have answered in the past, but honestly I am a huge people pleaser and didn’t want to let anyone down with not answering their questions, so I may have pushed my own boundaries and made myself uncomfortable at times. I hope to avoid that in the future! I don't like feeling uncomfortable asking questions with this blog and want it to be fun for us all!
ONTO THE NOS
These are just general ones.
No Non-Con. Both nsfw and sfw. I do not like anything to do with non consensual things, even if it’s for a scenario or not involving my characters. I don’t like thinking or talking about that stuff, so please try to keep it out of my inbox. Also, if it can't give enthusiastic consent, it's not fuckable. End of story of me.
No Blatant Abuse. I’ve let a few asks get away with this in the past, but I really need to set a firmer line. This triggers me. Please do not bring up straight up abuse, especially physically or sexual. We can have fun without bringing those things up. (Bullying and harassment are part of the stories. Characters in the stories do bad things, but I do not want clear abuse being put in as it makes me feel very uncomfortable.)
An addition to that last one, No Animal Abuse/harm. This is also a huge trigger for me. That one ask got me pretty bad. Animals getting hurt upsets me. I shouldn't have to explain why, but I have some pretty severe PTSD and some of it involves animals. Please leave it out of my inbox so I don’t need to struggle with my very intense imagination and flashbacks.
No Incest. Self explanatory. Some people get weird about it and it makes me VERY uncomfortable. Don’t bring that up with me. I want nothing to do with it.
No to most Bugs. And when I say bugs, I mostly mean creepy crawlies like centipedes, ESPECIALLY spiders, worms, other bugs I can’t even write out, bugs like that. Like, the list of bugs I’m ok with is very small, and it includes: moths/butterflies, most caterpillars (pretty much fuzzy ones, not smooth,) praying mantis, black crickets, and that’s about it!! Please don’t scare me with bugs!
No Snakes. I do not mean to have anything against any reptiles, but I am scared of them, but above all, I am VERY scared of snakes. I feel bad for this one and the last. Reptiles and bugs have done nothing to harm me, but I am shaking in my boots thinking about them. Please leave them out of asks.
Weird one. No Ouija boards and some occult items like that. Cannot handle how much those stress me out, please don't make me answers stuff with my characters with them. I also am pretty superstitious about saying/seeing some folklore or bad creatures names. Please don't put certain cryptid/creature names in my inbox, they will be deleted. I'm ok with a lot of cryptids, but this one is hard because I don't feel comfortable typing out the ones I am frightened of. My apologies, but stick to like, mothman (I actually love mothman,) and bigfoot and stuff that's easy and well known and talked about.
No Smoking and most drugs. No, not even the leaf. I don't like smoking and that stuff makes me uncomfortable. I don't really like drug use either save for consensual aphrodisiacs and that's barely. None of my characters would smoke and I don't really like the thought of drugs at all. (I barely like the thought of alcohol, so things more intense than or similar to that aren't really on my list of things I'm excited about.)
New: No Suicide/Suicidal Ideation Asks. I'm sorry I missed this one because it's big to me, but I guess I didn't think I'd get any ask about it. I should have been more proactive. Blatant suicide stuff is extremely triggering for me. I keep Vampire Soleil's depression stuff very vague for this reason. It's something that I cannot dwell on and really cannot tolerate well inside my thoughts. Please leave asks about this subject out of my inbox so I can keep myself safe.
Same goes for No Self Harm asks. Please do not mention it. I do not want to become triggered and go to a bad place. I want to try to avoid most Eating Disorder asks for the same reason. They act up things inside of me. While subjects similar might be brought up briefly, it is not an invitation to full out discuss these things.
Hard No NSFW Kinks
Scat Enema Vomit Drunk Sex Diapers Snot/Mucus Flatulence Feet (naked. I can handle clothes feet, just not naked feet) Inflation CNC Master/Slave (the terms ick me out, so maybe you'll see similar maybe dynamics, but never referred to as Master/Slave, especially with Atlas.) Age Play Teacher/Student Most Torture and Horror Kinks Hardcore Pain Kinks Gun/Weapons (Specifically NSFW. Regular gun/weapon stuff is fine!)
This list may be added to, but for now, I think it's a good start of things that I am not ok with! I hope this helps asks go smoother and people can feel more confident with the things they are sending in! But I will say, just because I am ok with talking about certain things, doesn't mean all of my characters are or that they would do any or all of the ones I didn't list here. I'll talk more about what each of my main 6 characters have for hard nos as well when I get time.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and for respecting my boundaries!
