#heidi oferrall

[heidiofans]

Can you imagine if someone were to submit the previous ask word for word, just switching the names around, to any of the blogs or forums that are biased against JH? They would get laughed at. But heaven forbid an anon wants to submit a fair argument using civil language, now it's suddenly "inflammatory." If you can't police their discourse, fine, but the least they can do is extend the same courtesy to you. Do they forget they're speaking with (and about) actual human beings?

[supermega-grumps]

With the news about Jared and Holly coming out please remember a few things:

Ross already knows. Stop tweeting him about it. Don’t mention it in his stream chat. Leave him alone.

Saying that Ross deserved better is not helping anyone’s case. It is probably hurting Ross more than you think.

Heidi is very strong. Just because she put it online doesn’t make her evil. She deserves just as much healing as she is wishing upon Jared.

Please be kind. Send Heidi kind words. If you have proof of Jared’s abusive actions speak up, no one deserves to suffer in silence.

[chosn1]

"jArEd's fAnBaSe IS maDe Up OF ChiLdrEN!!!"

Shut the fuck up. Your shitty arguments are void.

[trashwitchcovenhasmoved]

“Heidi wouldn’t let Jared leave! She should have let him leave!”

I’m sorry, I was unaware that he had no spine or feet with which to walk to a lawyers office to start the divorce process.

If you want a divorce THAT BADLY, you go and fucking get one; You don’t bitch and moan about “My wife won’t let me leave!”, you just fucking leave, full goddamned stop.  They can drag their feet or throw up roadblocks, but the divorce will still proceed against their objections.  

The courts are NOT going to force two people to stay married just because “Well, sir, it looks like your wife doesn’t want this divorce, sucks to suck.”

[awakenedshrub]

The Facts Of Heidi Vs Jared Vs Holly updated 5/21/19 12:14pm EST

I’m making this post because I’ve been following and looking up to Holly Conrad for a long time, and I just want the clear facts that have been revealed so far before I’m disappointed in everything again.

No Opinions here just the facts that have been confirmed by two or more parties that were mentioned above.

-Heidi and Jared confirmed separated May 8th 2019

-Jared Blocked Heidi on Twitter prior to May 9th 2019

-Holly Privated her twitter account around May 9th 2019

-A Poly relationship was agreed between both Jared and Heidi Prior to February 7th 2018

-Heidi told Jared to talk to Holly about his feelings for her February 7th 2018

-Jared’s feelings were reciprocated by Holly February 7th 2018

-Ross has stated he doesn’t want to be involved May 9th 2019

-Jared had a tumblr and snapchat where nudes were exchanged sometime Before 2017

- Sometime in 2018 Heidi was communicating with another adult man that she was exploring romantic feelings with. Jared knew about this

-Holly and Ross separated September of 2018

--Heidi moved out of Jared’s house either on or prior to May 7th 2019 and confirmed her and Jared were separating

-Heidi filed for divorce prior to May 7th 2019

-Heidi has aries, her own car, and her own home

-When Heidi was 17 she was cheated on by a different partner, not projared

I will update this more with each thing that is confirmed

[paddingtonicon]

lmao so I’ve never even heard of any of the people involved in the projared scandal but I love drama so I looked into it and holy fuck Heidi is an actual angel and Jared looks like a goblin rat king who hasn’t eaten in 3 years. gamers need to be oppressed again.

[heidiofans]

Sorry to write a submission that will probably send you hate, but I’ve had this thought on my mind and nowhere else to talk about it. 😕

I think it’s interesting when Lolcow goes off about how good Heidi is about handling “bad brain days” (specifically, “just say you had a bad day and move on”) only for Heidi to make a rant of tweets mere hours later that a book she read set her off and ruined her productivity. There’s nothing wrong about her talking about things that upset her, and the weirdest things can set that off, even a kid’s book. But imagine Holly posting just what’s in this screenshot, and how hard she would be torn into for the comment about deserving to be loved. And yes, Heidi deserves to be loved just much as anyone else.

Something interesting, Heidi made a claim that she’s not looking for responses, and set the tweets so only people she follows can reply, only to post a followup positive post about her store with public replies set, immediately followed by the post above (I can’t submit more than one screenshot sorry), only with the reply limit set again. I dunno, this whole “I’m limiting replies, but here’s a post where you can reply to that last post, but now here’s another where I say some people think I’m not deserving love but most of the people reading it can’t reply to it, just the last one” seems really odd to me.

BUT THAT’S ME. If you think what Heidi tweeted is fine, that’s fine. Please don’t attack this blog because of some anon opinion that doesn’t matter in the grand scheme. I also want to apologize to HOF, I know posts like this cause problems with angry anons following your blog, but like I said at the start of this post, I have thoughts on this and nowhere safe to say them. And to the angry anons, please keep in mind this is just my opinion. You have your places to share your opinions without harassment, please let us have ours.

(Anonymous submission)

[Additional comment from Heidiofans: As always with these submissions, I ask that you keep the responses civil. I will not be posting overly aggressive replies.]

[heidiofans]

Sorry if this stirs the pot, but a claim was made on TWC that Jared stole/damaged Heidi’s property as “punishment for leaving”. I’m not sure why Jared would do this since (A): he initiated the break-up/divorce, and (B): Heidi claimed that after she agreed to the divorce, he was extremely cooperative, even hiring movers and buying her a car to assist with her move. It just doesn’t seem to match up. Then again, I couldn’t find the tweet that post referenced. Maybe you have more insight?

This is actually new news to me. I never saw anybody make a claim like that before now. If anybody made this claim on Twitter, I certainly missed it. :|