#lolcow

[dyke-ave]

y'all i didn't gaf about tyler catastrophe until he started claiming to be two spirit bc he "lives in oklahoma" and "has native friends". this feels like a slap in the face bro. white pretendian dude who wants to move to ENGLAND btw!! keep my identity out of ur damn mouth😭😭

[valentine--x]

My OTP

[parker0003]

Felix cipher x Tyler catastrophe x Chris overalls fanfic

[inbred-eater]

anyone else sucked into the tyler catastrophe/w*lbur soot drama - god it’s so fascinating watching a lolcow be created in real time

[liarzhangs]

i CANNOT believe i’m watching the making of a lolcow in real time

[status-quo-hater]

Most people online are very blatantly obviously are constantly itching to harass mentally ill people the second they slip up and do anything out of line. I mean this as a general statement. You are all waiting for your justification. Every second of every day. It doesn't matter what the severity of the social infraction is. Just as long as there is one that can be pointed to as a reason.

It can be anything. A cringe hobby. A weird fetish. A public episode. A badly worded post. A misinterpretation of someone else. A distasteful joke. A strange queer identity. A wrongdoing from a decade ago. A messy room. An admission of poor hygiene. A bad take about a TV show. Even if it is something legitimately worthy of criticism, most people who participate in these harassment campaigns don't actually care about that. They care about making The Evildoer suffer for the sake of justice. No matter what The Evildoer does afterwards, no matter if they apologize, change their view, stop the criticized behavior, it will never matter because there is a frozen snapshot of it that is now outside of their control and it will always represent them.

I have trauma from being turned into a lolcow by kiwifarms as a teenager. I actually have more directly impactful trauma from having thousands of adults stalk and harass me— than I do from extensive sexual abuse. Having an audience of any sort puts me on edge now. Even having this blog is something akin to digital self-harm. I am distrustful of visibility. I believe that any moment I do anything even slightly wrong, I will never be given grace. I will never be asked what I meant. I will never be encouraged to improve. No matter what The Crime was. I will be baited and harassed into breaking down and then harassed further for my spiraling. Because the intention of these actions is not to remedy a problem, it is to destroy a disposable person.

[thisis-intersexism]

This may be a hot take the world isn't ready for, but a shocking amount of people who hate on incels seem to group them with common intersex traits as a way to make fun of them.

Obviously incels are bad and misogynistic but if someone can't insult that part of them without also being intersexist or body shaming I think they too are bigoted

This is intersexism and ableism.

I've noticed that SO much of the hate against incels are intersexist and ableist talking points. "Small dick" "low testosterone" "braindead" "straight up the r word" it's why I have such an issue with "lolcows", incels and generally bad people who do bad things or hurt people are EASY targets for ableism and intersexism, especially when the lolcow in question is VERY OBVIOUSLY AND VISIBLY neurodivergent or otherwise disabled. When you try to call this rhetoric out, people will assume you're defending the person and their actions, which is NOT how that works.

I swear to God, it we can't get to the point where we stop insulting people for innate and natural traits that they can't help and start criticizing their ACTUAL actions nothing will ever change.

[thezmanrider]

Proof that CD/Lily doesn't see trans men as valid. Lily knows that Crimsonender is FtM trans, yet misgenders him with that insult. Also I've seen footage of how CD/Lily plays games, and I can't blame Crim for telling her to git good, she's worse than Darksydephil.