#hello 2019

[salamispots]

bloom

[wolfsheart-blog]

Wolf by Ian McAllister.

[ninasdrafts]

1. Be brave! Take a step out of your comfort zone. Do something you wouldn't have thought possible a year ago. There is so much to gain. 2. Forgive yourself. In the past, you've forgiven people who deserved it less than you do right now. You are human, you make mistakes and you take wrong turns. You can't hold your errors and faults against yourself forever. Forgiveness is key. 3. Try to believe that every mistake and every wrong choice you make helps you get to where you're supposed to be. That maybe friends drift apart for a reason, that a failed relationship is a well-hidden lesson. Sometimes it's hard to find a point in things that hurt you. But there always is one, no matter how long it takes you to understand. 4. Letting go and moving on is not a race. It's not a competition or a contest on who cares less. Take your time to heal. Move at your own pace. 5. Tell them you miss them. Tell them, or they will never know. For all you know, they probably miss you as well. 6. Don't let the fear of change, the fear of trying new things, stop you. Ever. In the end we only regret what we didn't do. 7. Trust your gut. As stupid as it sounds, listen to your heart. If you have a bad feeling about a situation, voice it. Act on it. You’ve been through enough to trust in the way you feel about something or someone. 8. If someone leads you on, if they make you feel like you’re not worth their time, but draw you in again once they notice you distancing yourself, cut them out of your life. You deserve so much better than someone who treats you like a person that’s easily replaced. 9. Don’t sell yourself short. Don’t hide your light under a bushel. You’re here, you’re loved and you matter. 10. It’s never too late for a new dream. It’s never too late to discover something that makes your heart beat faster and gives you purpose. If you find it, hold on to it.

10 things to keep in mind for 2019 / n.j.

[jodeeeart]

Little morning Moon Monster. 

[beautifulmess555]

[zariest]

ig: lcjenn ☁

[creatingnikki]

I've made a '2019 Happy Goals' list

Because I don't care about coming up with resolutions that feel so ideal in the present but so torturous in the new year

I don't want to burden the year that hasn't even begun yet with all the things I couldn't do this year

Or be unrealistic about things that will take me longer than a year to achieve

Tasks and hard things can keep away

I'm going to enter 2019 knowing the happy things

Happy Goals 2019

1. Pick one poet I studied in high school and really study them.

2. Get my typewriter fixed or buy a new one.

3. Learn to do my hair (just leaving it open doesn't do it anymore).

4. Start wearing home slippers all the time. Not just for the first week I buy them.

5. Fill an entire journal with illustrations.

6. Pet a dog. (It's never too late!)

7. Go away for a few days from the life I know.

8. Buy flowers. For my space. As a more regular thing, not a rare gesture.

9. Indulge in more creative writing activities. While keeping at the self introspective ones.

10. Get rid of mementos.

11. Move from isolated words to basic sentences in Korean.

12. Perform spoken word more often. Even if I think my voice shakes.

13. Let go because my heart is ready to truly be light.

[drunk-on-writing]

you survived though the road was long and winding you reached the end  tattered and torn, perhaps  but above all you came out in one piece whether by being glued together  reassembled after coming undone or simply just by holding on with all your might you made it you survived 

(cc, 2019)