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[whumpookies]

Home and away episode 4104

Found in the water barely conscious and suffering with hyperthermia..

Anoni ask.

[sunny-cafe-official]

Not a culture ask but I frequently find myself genuinely believing I am certain characters and getting confused when I realize I don't actually look like them, is that da? Because for me personally I don't think it's a fictive did thing for me personally so I feel like it might be da, but I'm not sure so... How do you know if something is a da or of you're an irl?

Hello! This is a great question! Though, I wasn't completely sure how to answer this, so I went to my discord for help! Here's our helpful answer from someone who identifies with both terms! "for me with irls anytime I see something that involves any of the IRLS in any point of my life, I immediately look at that and think “that’s me”or “that has me on it” with da’s really only when i’m in an episode do I really ever think that, though everyone experiences it differently this is just what goes with us." This is a great answer! Remember that is can be different for everyone, though. I know people who use the terms interchangeably. It's mostly what you decide it means to you. So, pretty much, going off our lovely help, D/A's are a lot more episodic than IRL's. As for knowing whether or not you have one, I think you've figured that one out! You know that you feel like the character, that you look at it and go "Yeah, that's me!" I hope this helps! If you have any follow up questions, don't be afraid to ask! I do make mistakes! I'm still learning myself!

[mechazilla94]

❛ why are you helping me ? ❜ for Kyr from Matt

Kyr looked over at the Devil of Hell's Kitchen and looked around at the unconscious bodies of the Yakuza gang members surrounding them. "Would you believe that we just happened to be in the same place at the same time?" he asked. "Helping you just happened to be a pleasant side effect." he added, kneeling beside a body and grabbing a flashdrive out of the goon's pocket.

"Now we'll part again." he added, extending his wings to fly off when suddenly the click of a safety made him shift and tackle the DareDevil to the ground behind a brick wall as gunfire rained down on them. A milisecond later and they probably both would have riddled with holes. He hissed angrily and looked at his companion as he eyed the broken window that he'd crashed through earlier. "How do you feel about flying?" he asked with growl as more of the Yakuza reinforcements showed up. One of the shots landed by Kyr's tail and showed itself to be a tranquilizer dart. He narrowed his eyes at a familiar skull like symbol on it. This was a coordinated ambush... Fisk wanted the Devil and HYDRA wanted him... They were working together...

He quickly grabbed the black suited man and flew as fast as he could. Darting through buildings, around fire escapes until he had a few miles between them and the warehouse. He slowly glided to a stop and gently dropped the masked man onto the roof before carefully landing himself. How had HYDRA found him? He shook his head. He'd worry about that later. If HYDRA wanted him to return they'd threaten anyone close to him and if Fisk was involved with HYDRA then... "This will be the last time we see each other." he promised, handing the Devil the flash drive with all of Fisk's information and connections.

The warmth of the other's hand in his caused the demon's heart to accelerate as he realized that they were only inches apart. He slowly closed the distance between them as he gave the man in the mask chaste kiss before pulling away. "Forgive me." he whispered. "I just didn't want to leave without doing that." he explained with a self deprecating smirk. "I know. It's selfish of me..."

@sonofirishseas

[mickschumacher47]

The first sentence was “This is Angie” but with a very heavy accent, it took me some time to understand ngl 😅

Oh god thank you! He almost said anguie 😂 I was like : “what the hell is that ?”

Ahh on my way to buy that boy some pronunciation classes

[ex-jw]

What advice would you give to someone trying to leave the jw’s? I’m debating if I should go or stick with it. I still have that deep rooted fear that if I leave, I’ll die. But I don’t connect with the religion, I don’t think I ever have. Whenever I do go to meeting, it’s all so artificial, and they don’t really accept me. It’s judgemental and favoritism is ever present, I feel like I’m lying when I go. It’s been a hard few weeks as I’ve been in my head about it. Please give me any advice, thanks

Hello, 

I think something that could help is connecting to people outside of JWs. Being in the religion is kind of like an echo chamber of thoughts and fears. Seek out people with different opinions and life experiences, hearing other people’s thoughts can do wonders to change your perspective. 

Research can also be a good benefit. Looking into the history of JWs as a religion, the behind-the-scenes stuff, and etc. That in particular personally helped me to see it as a man-made organization instead of something legitimately led by god. 

And, of course, therapy. Therapy can do wonders, I’m actually seeing one right now. Talking to a professional about your fears, thoughts, and experiences in a healthy environment can really help. 

In general, just try to change your surroundings. Get into other activities, friend groups, etc. I can’t promise it’ll totally go away, but it could help. Please seek out professional help if it gets really bad. 

Best wishes and hope. Remember that you aren’t alone. 

[aggresivelyfriendly]

Help! I don’t have cable, and it looks like the NBC app doesn’t have subscriptions so I can watch live tv.

I must watch this snow! Ideas?

[vegcraftt]

My little family keeps struggling with making the rent. We have had too many late rents and are on the verge of eviction and really can't afford to not pay rent even for a month.

Currently I am waiting to be moved into a new living situation but that isn't for another month and we need to make it until then. This should be the last month I need to be here. So things should get easier.

I am offering to sell stockings or even boxes of candy that I have left over from an event.

I can also do tarot readings as that is a passion of mine as well.

I enjoy making witches bottles as well and selling them.

Currently I am sitting on 300 behind after being able to earn a bit from home massages and candy boxes.

My venmo is @PastelVegCraft

I hope one of the things I am offering interest some of you and I appreciate any help.

Happy holidays ppl and I hope you all are making it okay in life too. 2018 has been a b*tch🌲🎅🎄