#hetfems

[mithliya]

we have reached the “women do not have privilege over other women in the axis of sexual orientation” talking points. shocker

[oppositesexatractedradfems]

Some lesbian radfems be like: hetfems!! Feelings mode off!!!

[mithliya]

can u guys stop supporting this woman? shes insanely lesbophobic and has genuinely argued that being homosexual makes a person inferior and devoid of empathy

[mithliya]

am i the only one who is bothered by these replies to such blatant lesbophobia (highlighted above)… idk if i’m perhaps just sensitive but i don’t think it makes sense to read someone comparing lesbians to incels & saying we just support separatism bc we want to pressure heterosexual women into having sex with us and then be like “i totally see where you’re coming from, but i think others might find this comparison a lil bit offensive. but you’re totally right”

[mithliya]

everyday i’m baffled by how openly & blatantly lesbophobic women are on here

[mithliya]

i’m only accepting the interpretation that dating a man made her see how shitty men are up close and thus strengthened her feminism 🙏🏾 for my own sanity

[mithliya]

"omg stop putting words in my mouth i didnt even say that!!!"

i took your literal, exact statements. i dont know why so many of you will say lesbophobic or racist shit and the second it's pointed out, you'll pretend everyone else was imagining you saying these things.

We can't control that; it's innate. Some of you, upon grappling with this fact, immediately jump straight to the incel way of doing things and begin slinging the aforementioned colorful monikers (ahem, sexualized anti-woman slurs aforementioned in this blog post) for only being attracted to men instead of you.

your exact words. you explicitly said that separatists are simply mad that OSA women won't date us.

Call me crazy, but the last time I checked, a "lesbophobic woman" was a woman who hates lesbians for only being attracted to other woman, not a woman who simply refuses to date/sleep with you.

your exact words. you explicitly said that we are calling women lesbophobic for not sleeping with us.

The way many female separatists (who are most often lesbians) go about presenting their arguments is not only unnecessarily rude to women who have done nothing to deliberately harm them (and, when it includes such colorful monikers as "dick worshipper" and "cock rider" in it, reasonably comes off as an attack), but it includes many of the same tactics that homophobes use against LGB people to make their point.

your exact words. you explicitly compared lesbian separatists online being rude (and you couldn't even name 1 example of it because you're actually referring to either anonymous messages and overtly anti-feminist women) to systematic homophobia.

stillarandom-radfem, you are being critiqued for your lesbophobia. you did not respond to the criticisms directly so that you can pretend other women are lying and being unreasonable, but you are being criticised for your literal words.

you're even lying in this response because you repeatedly argue that lesbian separatists are overall like this:

and you then repeatedly imply that we are somehow not women & not also facing misogyny. countless of us have repeatedly criticised women using pornified & misogynistic insults towards OSA women, but we also saw that the women doing this are either anons, OSA women, or anti-feminist women. so how is this somehow the fault of lesbian separatists??? and then these tags:

a lot of the women criticising you aren't even lesbians. you even imply here that the women who criticised your post are the horny lesbians trying to guilt OSA radfems into fucking us & calling women misogynistic slurs, even though no one that reblogged it doesn't fit that description whatsoever.

you're not beating the lesbophobia accusations here, stillarandom-radfem. blocking every woman who criticised your lesbophobia will not somehow make this acceptable.

[mithliya]

so what???? OSA women still have used the systemic power they do have to commit homophobic atrocities, even if not at the same level and degree as men. stop it with these homophobic statements & stop minimising homophobia from women.