polycule asks!! 34, 58, for HHSH, and I cannot remember specifically if/who there is in TGDW so free reign for: 23, 14, 58 !
For context, The Aviary is the endgame polycule of my fanfiction Haunted House Sweet Home. It's a canon/canon/OC ship, and you can learn more about it from the fic itself or by browsing the story tag. The polycule (if canon) from The God-Dragon’s Wife is Xinya and Yu-Qi being married, and Jao being (unofficially) a consort to the queen. Xinya and Jao would be girlfriends pretty much, and Jao and Yu-Qi would be metamours that cross the line into FWB sometimes.
34. How have their members’ respective family relationships influenced their polyamorous dynamics?
Gonna be honest, I have not done my research on polyamory in the Ottoman Empire. I have no idea what the prevailing attitudes were, or what the general opinions of people at the time would be. Haven't done the research for modern Japan either.
Personally, though, Feriha has been 1) already betrayed by her family 2) dead for so long that she doesn't care what they think. I think she'd actually be more inclined to do it if they disapproved.
Atem also wouldn't care, but because he couldn't possibly choose between either of them. It wouldn't be fair to them or himself, and he's more than willing to ride out cultural disapproval for what makes him and his partners happy.
It's present in the story that Yugi is hesitant to even say how he feels when he finds out Atem is/was married, but we all saw how that turned out. I think the concept of not being a homewrecker definitely held him back, but ultimately he can't put aside love for cultural expectation either. He's the poster child of Do It Scared.
58. How does the polycule celebrate anniversaries?
All three of them are very concerned everyone gets to spend time one-on-one, so every "single" anniversary (Yugi/Atem anniversary, Feriha/Atem anniversary, and Yugi/Feriha anniversary) are assumed to be celebrated completely separate unless they make plans otherwise. It's usually an entire afterlife "day" spent together, doing cute date activities, if present Atem may or may not force the other sit for a portrait, and sex.
When they celebrate their collective anniversary, it's pretty much the same thing but it's all three of them instead of one-on-one, but usually spread out over more than one "day." Sometimes they'll all agree to throw a big party for it and invite their afterlife friends and family, but most of the time it's just the three of them.
Fun fact, since time doesn't really exist in the afterlife, they just agree to celebrate their anniversaries whenever they feel like it!
I answered 23 here & 58 here!
14. What’s the craziest polycule drama they’ve experienced so far?
I think dating Jao dating her own queen while said queen is married to a literal dragon she's worshiped her entire life is some pretty intense poly drama. And not only is she dating her own queen now, while also being her personal assistant, that dragon wife is regularly checking her out now. She wasn't prepared for this, please send help.
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