#highfunctionsociopath

[harry-potter-wholockian]

I have spent 4+ hours cleaning my house. To the point that my house is so dirty and messy that I had to clean out the FILTER on the vacuum, (not just the canister, which I have to empty 4 times) 3 times. Because this place is so dusty.  And what does my dad say after he's slept the last two hours away? "Well there's chicken in the freezer, but it'll take too long to thaw it now. you should have gotten it out earlier. You were home!" Which had crossed my mind. But you know what? My dad hasn't made a homemade meal in months. I got him to make an extra steak for me when I was working the closing shift one night about a month ago. That was it. He will come home. Munch on stuff. Nap. And then when dinner time comes around he goes "Oh, I had a big lunch. I'm not hungry." And then we'll be on our own.

Every night is the same way. Why would I assume tonight would be any different? Like honestly man. I have spent time CLEANING YOUR HOUSE. YOUR MESS. And you get mad at me because I didn't start a meal that I had no idea if you were going to be "hungry" enough to eat after all your snacking? Do you know how much time I sat on my butt using the vacuum tool to clean up the corners around your seat at the table? Your crumbs and garbage. I picked up 3 Crunchie bar wrappers. There's 3 or more wrappers sitting on top of the table in amidst the bills, crap, and newspapers.  If this is how you're going to act, please just go to grandma's and help her out, because i won't put up with your crap, as you well know from my snapping back at you.  You're welcome for cleaning up some of the house. I know you're not going to thank me for it. And I know you won't try to keep it clean. But at least I tried because I can't handle this. I hate living in this mess. I hate living with you.

[transboys]

highfunctionsociopath answered your post: Input on compression shorts...

I say yes. I am a big guy (big hips, muffin top the whole bit.) But my compression stuff helps so much! I don’t know what it’s called though

[amongie]

People need to stop and think before they react sometimes honestly. When I saw it I thought of Dad Egbert too, not gunna lie. I'm glad that I can help make you feel better, and that bunny gif is adorable. I hope no one else blows it out of proportion and stupidly attacks you again. Have a good day and keep your chin up.

thank you omf 

u deserve another bunny

[amongie]

You know what. People are jumping on your back for trying to make a small joke that you had made. They need to calm down. Sure people are angry, but honestly. IT IS THE INTERNET. There are people that make jokes about the FREAKING HOLOCAUST. Okay so you messed up. There is no need for people to attack you. Other fandoms make stupid jokes at inopportune times as well. You're only getting a ton of flack cause it's Tumblr and Homestuck related. Keep your head up, okay? People need to learn to stop.

The worst part is, some people genuinely believe I meant harm by that post when, in all reality, i literally went on yahoo to check my email and saw the headline and two words came into mind. "Dad" and "Egbert"

So yes, what I did was wrong. I should have looked into the article more and figured out what it was truly about. But people have taken it far out of hand. I actually was legitimately about to cry for a while last night, but thankfully I didn't. I did remain less active though.

And then I started getting nice people such as yourself, even last night, who were comforting me. Right when I thought the Tumblr community would never be great to me ever again, I got over thirty people coming and comforting me. And when I say over thirty, I mean today alone i've answered about 29-30 asks about this 

So, long story short, thank you for helping me feel a lot better about the given situation. You get a bunny GIF

[jehblelele]

Hi Jess. =3= I am bored and you are my only awake friend once more. So I demand attention like any needy person does. That and I love you.

OMG SAME No one is awake wtf go on…..

seriously though, I would walk over to your house if it wasn’t so late/dark/cold.

And I love you too, buddy C:

[jehblelele]

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DDDDDDDAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMIIIIIIIIAAAAAANNNNNNN…… Hi Damian… B)

[aliendiety]

landlockedbythesea replied to your post: Potentially dumb question: why is trans* written...

because its a search method, and it includes all things trans related. thats what i was told at least.

highfunctionsociopath replied to your post: Potentially dumb question: why is trans* written...

Because it’s an umbrella term for all non binary aspects of the gender spectrum. That’s the best I can explain it as.

Okay, that makes a lot of sense. First couple of times I read it that way I was expecting a footnote to that extent, so I guess it's like an understood footnote?

Anyway, thanks! It's just something I've been wondering about.

[stareyedcatface]

Hey I saw your post on the ftm tag, and man, if you can't come out right and say it. Write a note. That's how I came out to both of my parents because I couldn't come up with the gull to actually come straight out and say it. Or even write out what you want to say and rehearse it a few times over, and bring the paper with you when you talk to them. Both of my parents accept me now which is good, just remember it's going to take some time for them to get it right and not be potentially upset.

I hope you don’t mind me publishing this but it’s really really good advice (if you do mind, just message me and i’ll take it down)

I’ll try writing them a note or something. Or maybe i’ll just bring it up some other time.